Sunday, May 6, 2012

Photo Overload

Doug and I finally entered the 21st century two months ago when our extremely old phones finally died (in the tech world, five years is ancient). We can text! We can upload pictures to Facebook! And I do! So much so, that I forget to update our little family journal here. We've been a house of sickies for about 2.5 months straight, so not much has happened, but a little. However. There are a bazillion Instagram photos. So brace yourselves for the onslaught. Ready?

My awesome Dad took me on a daddy-daughter date to see Wicked. It was only the best Broadway I've seen, and I've seen a few good ones... I loved it so much! And we had a great time hanging out.


Our family colored Easter eggs and it was the first year the kids were old enough to be creative with them. They used crayon, dyed the eggs ombre style, and applied pieces of tape which they removed after dyeing to create effects.


Then we went to my Dad's for dinner and the Easter egg hunt.


Papa Scott givin' the rundown.


Cousins are the best!


Miss Evany at the bus stop with her lovely caramel colored hair and those gorgeous lashes.


While reading Bringing Up Bébé I was reminded of something I learned in French class: that children begin cooking in the kitchen at very young ages. One of the first things they learn to make is Gateau au Yaourt (Yogurt Cake). It is a very simple mixture and uses the yogurt tub to measure ingredients. Being a very simple base recipe, it's also easy to create custom versions. Here, Sterling is using a pomegranate yogurt to flavor the cake.


It was delicious.


My cute friend Rachel (center) had a birthday. All of us ladies went to the Cheesecake Factory. We laughed so much that our cheeks hurt and we had tears. Our ever-dwindling group of ladies is such a rare commodity. Such genuine camaraderie among so many ladies does not happen often. It is truly a gift.




On the nice days we've done a bit of work outside. Here's The Chubbs hanging out in his pack n play, discovering the sky and outside noises. He's such a doll baby.


Evany's Gateau au Yaourt was a Mango yogurt variation and we added some coconut. It too was delicious.


Doug's car that he's had since we were dating 14 years ago died last month so I've been commuting him around a bit. One day it was a doctor's appt across town in N. Portland, so the babies and I jaunted up the road to the Whole Foods to pick up some herbs and check out the pastry counter. The kids were enamored of this window display. We have a Whole Foods out here 2 miles away, but ironically, this one on Alberta is the only one I've ever been to- 13 years ago when we were living over there, and again two weeks ago.


Speaking of creams puffs...


Elam has been so stoic lately. I don't know what's up. Maybe it's a phase. Maybe it's just his little personality to be très sérieux. He still lights up and smiles for mama, so it's fine by me.
This one I call, Elam: Introspective. His copper curls and grey eyes just kill me.


My brother Cassidy and his girlfriend Erica came to visit. Don't be alarmed; the dog is not his girlfriend. That's Hyphy, the little mischief maker.


Hylton adores his uncles.


We went to the Farmer's Market on opening day. They have a little booth there with a gazillion varieties of tomato starts to choose from. I like to pick one or two unique varieties to try every year. And you can't leave the market without getting some of the fresh powdered doughnuts that literally melt on contact with your mouth.


Mon petite passed out halfway through. If I was that cozy, being wheeled around the market, I'd probably go to sleep too.


When we got home, we began hand-scraping the weeds out of a large portion of the old garden area to prepare for the play structure we bought from another family on Craigslist.

Hylton was helping with his Tonkas.


One of my many trips to pick Doug up from work. This time, we got there too early, so I let the kids get out to play in the courtyard. They had strict instructions to not run or get wet. ...Yeah...


Evie and I met a peacock on our way to DEQ the other morning. He crossed the street, crying. Evie thought he sounded funny. We could still hear him as we sat in the never-ending line.


Sterling climbing the walls. Literally. And one of the knights who say "ni" taunting him from below.


Daddy bonding time.


Lastly, Michelle, my dearest friend of 10 years, moved away two weeks ago. Why does 8 hours feel like the ends of the earth? There were several going-away parties in her honor: a beautiful tea luncheon (below), a movie/happy hour girls night out, and Rachel's birthday dinner was a combination of both due to timing.


Still sort of hoping she'll change her mind and move back...




Thursday, April 12, 2012

Ma Charmante Mère

A couple of weeks ago, I suddenly found myself thinking about a journal entry I made long ago in grade-school. I searched through the various old school journals my teachers had had us write in to hone our expository skills until I found it. The assignment was to write about where we imagined ourselves in 20 years. Ironically, I thought of it again 20 years and 2 months later. It is a two-page spread, naturally.


It says: "In 20 years, I will be 31 years old, the same age that my mom is now. I think that I will look like my mom, have a husband and four kids. I will have a job either as a lawyer or a teacher. I will be out of BYU. And living in a beautiful log cabin in Sequim, Washington with a Siamese cat, and a Huskie dog. I'll live on a hill over looking the small town, with a beautiful back yard. And trees all around our house."

It feels rather personal to post this on my blog, but I think also it is a great way to honor my mom. You see, today is her birthday. She turns 52. And while this might be my journal entry, it's really about her.



My whole family is pretty competitive, whether we openly admit it or not. My brother cheats at cards, my sister plays dirty, I contrive, and my other brother reveals nothing. It's all in fun, of course; nothing sinister.  But we're all very sure that our sole person is my mother's favorite. And she's good like that; we all believe it. But the truth is we're all her favorites. And isn't that the hallmark of a good mom?

My point is, that I grew up thinking I was mom's favorite. There were very little barriers between us. I grew up telling her everything. She was my best friend; sometimes my only friend. At times, she confided equally in me. That's just the way we are. Kindred spirits. Different, but so very much the same.



I can remember the adoration I had of her as a child. I was proud she was my mom. My childhood friends used to say how cool she was, and how pretty, and that I was so lucky. And I knew it. She's pretty awesome. There is nothing, nothing, nothing she can't do. She fixes cars, and washing machines, and pours concrete, she gardens, cans food, sews, crochets, builds things, remodels, fishes, camps, cooks, works, and loves us. She didn't go to college, but she's smart as a whip! She'd do anything asked of her by someone she loves. She's playful and funny and independent and strong and beautiful.

Things haven't changed much with the passing of time. I still confide in her. She understands me. She talks reason to me. She comforts me. She loves me.

The day I wrote this journal entry, I wanted to be just like my mom because I loved her and admired her. It humbles me as I reflect on the kind of mom I am for my kids. Of course I want them to have their own dreams, but a part of me wants to know that they feel loved enough by me to inspire the same kind of devotion. Do I offer the same safe-haven? The same non-judgmental repository? The same unconditional love? Do they know they too can do anything? be anything? Do they know I love them all, each one, fiercely  with my whole being? I hope.

Mother, you charming soul, my sister spirit- I love you always. Happy Birthday.

Friday, April 6, 2012

Elam



Little one finally found his thumb! Now, we just need to figure out which lovey he wants and he can join the rest of the kiddos.



Large Bowl (tub) + Layers of Angel Food Cake (baby fat rolls) + Strawberry Topping (red hair, duh) + a dollop of Whipped Cream on top (shampoo foam) = Strawberry Shortcake (Elam. Also = delicious).



I am just so giddy that he is putting himself to sleep AND in his own crib that I can't stop taking pictures while he's sleeping. It's the best.



I love my other kids. I really do. I should definitely take more photos of them next time...