Friday, June 25, 2010

Through the eyes of my children... Part 1

This week we enjoyed a Toy Story marathon. My boys had seen part of the first one, but not all of it. When we watched it, it was scary for the then-5 1/2-year old, so we turned it off. However, with the plans to watch Toy Story 3 in the theaters, we thought it would be fun for them to have the complete context. So, on Tuesday evening we watched the first. On Wednesday morning, we watched the 2nd. And on Wednesday afternoon, we all (along with Grandma, Grandpa, and my niece) went to the theater to see number 3.

We also very coincidentally went to the Disney store on Saturday. This might be the second time my kids have ever been to a Disney store, if not even the first. Of course, my middle guy wanted absolutely everything related to Toy Story. He finally decided on a Buzz Lightyear toy. However, in order to get it, he had to convince his brother that they should buy it, as they currently share all of their money. The $15 would have to come out of joint savings. When Erik realized that Buzz was on sale, he quickly acquiesced, not wanting to pass up a good deal. (what a picture into their distinct personalities!) Thus, Buzz entered our family, right before watching the whole series.

In many ways, this movie reminds me of pieces of all of my kids. I suppose that's what makes them such good movies--they have accurately depicted childhood for a lot of kids, and what children would like their toys to actually do! Watching my boys' faces as they watched the movies at home was fun.






They were so excited for the third. They always enjoy going to a movie in the theater, but this was extra. The excitement was built from the marathon. What would happen next? Their imaginations were captured in a big way. Shortly after watching the first, Anders asked for a permanent marker, so that he and Erik could write their names on Buzz's feet.

What was also interesting to me was Grace, nearly 3. She's always watched movies along with the boys, and enjoyed them. This includes all of the Star Wars movies. See how my standards slip, the more children I have? Erik was not allowed to watch Star Wars, in spite of Carl's longing to share it with him, until he was 6. Anders was, at the time, 4, and he watched it right along with him. Earlier than I think was probably wise, but waiting another two years seemed hard to do. And it certainly was made for boys like him, as he became obsessed after just the briefest clip. Actually, Anders fell in love with Star Wars just from the music. Carl received a birthday card that played a music clip, and just from listening to that card, Anders knew he wanted to watch the movies. Of course, it's not disputed that John Williams is a genius, is it?

At any rate, then, Grace began watching Star Wars as soon as she was old enough to pay any attention while the boys were watching. This leads to a 2-year-old who loves Yoda and engages in lightsaber duels against her brothers. She's certainly never been scared during the shows.

The first movie in the theater that she watched and enjoyed was The Princess and the Frog. As Anders had fallen for Star Wars, so did she fall for Tiana. To the point where she can quote movie lines, sometimes makes her dolls into Prince Naveen and Princess Tiana, and tells anyone who asks that it's her favorite. Even at 2 1/2 she really got the movie, and kept talking about how Dr. Facilier was "scary".

She watched Toy Story 2 while sitting on my lap so I could do her hair. She commented several times that it was scary. I assumed she was just patterning off of Anders. He's my sensitive guy. He gets scared easily in movies, and even books. Scared during the typically scary parts, that are meant to be scary, but also scared when someone is making a wrong choice, or about to get into trouble. We don't try to talk him out of being scared, most of the time, but acknowledge that it's scary, and try to describe what feels scary for him. In this way, Grace has heard a lot about being scared during movies, and at first it just seemed she was repeating this language. As it went on, though, it started to seem to me that she perhaps was actually comprehending more of the sequence of the movie, and it actually was scary to her. This seems like somewhat of a developmental milestone to me, though I'm not sure at what age kids normally start to "get" movies in this way.

Now that I've set the stage, I will wait to capture their reactions during Toy Story 3 in the next post.

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Siblings




I love this picture. It definitely shows the relationship they have. It's not always perfect, of course. They are, after all, siblings. There is arguing, and for an almost-3 year old, Grace has a great ability to tattle. Anders, for all the love he has for his sister, is prone to quick expressions of frustration. But, for the most part, they show love and kindness to each other. They love to play together. Anders is also the master of silliness, and takes great delight in helping his young student learn silly ways. Grace clearly looks up to her brother, and loves to emulate him, good and bad.

Sunday, June 13, 2010

Comments are moderated

I know, it hardly matters, as this blog seems quite dead. For some reason, however, comment spammers seem to really like the Halloween post. So, in order to save myself the work of going back in and deleting them, I'm giving myself the work of having to approve comments instead.

I think about blogging a lot. Mostly when I should be doing something else, and am procrastinating, I guess. Like right now, when I'm supposed to be finishing homework, and getting ready for an exam tomorrow. My momentum was lost, however, when I realized I'd never sent in the proctor request for this exam, which means that I probably can't take it tomorrow (unless they are working late on a Sunday night...). Which isn't really a big deal, but it's frustrating, creating more work for me. So now, my choice was either go through and delete comments on my blog, or play yet another game of Bejeweled Blitz. I went with the blog, at least for now, and this completely pointless post.

So, I do still have kids. And they're still cute. But I'm not really putting pictures here anymore. It's more work, and more open than putting them on facebook. I think about restricting the earlier parts of this blog, or going back through and editing posts. I've not really ever worried about internet security that way, but as my kids get older I find myself wondering how much information about them is wise to put online. No decisions have been made yet, though, and I imagine I'll be too lazy to do much.

This is my chance to go to bed early, I suppose, since studying hard now for my not-happening exam seems kind of pointless. All that caffeine I drank to keep myself awake for studying is now in full force, unfortunately.

Maybe I'll write more on that later.

Saturday, November 07, 2009

Halloween

Unfortunately I was very sick on Halloween. So the pictures are uninspired. Thankfully, the kids are still cute.

Gracie, the skunk







(Anders, ever perceptive, told me after seeing the picture of niece Juliana as a lion: "I know what Grace is going to be for Halloween next year! A lion!")

Erik, the crazy scientist




 

Thanks for the lab coat, Grandma!

Anders as Commander Cody





Carl snapped a few for me at Trunk or Treat. I stayed home and went back to bed.



Carl's description of Grace with her jacket on: roadkill.

The boys got a lot of candy. Grace collected rocks.



Some Fall fun

This is the "Year of the Lame Blog" for me, I guess. I have desires to have it be a journal of what we do, but my execution fails.

Here are some pictures of the girl in the fall.

 
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Wednesday, September 23, 2009

Thursday, May 28, 2009

Sweet home, Indiana...

I'm not sure that quite works. But we are, in fact, now home in Indiana. My parents' home, that is. They are graciously allowing us to live with them for a few months, while we wait and figure out what is next.

Our trip was great, and I really want to go back and blog about the pictures, as a family record. Not tonight, however.

For the family waiting eagerly, here are a few pictures from our time here so far:

Grandma reading to her granddaughters
From May 2009


Gracie enjoying the new play structure
From May 2009


Anders lost his second tooth!
From May 2009


From May 2009


New puppy Pebbles
From May 2009


Which is the dog, and which is the duster?
From May 2009


Click on any picture to go to the picasa album and see the rest of the pictures, or just keep watching here. :)

Sunday, May 17, 2009

Final destination: Walkerton, IN

After more than 2 weeks of travel, we drove the 2 hours from Chicago to Walkerton with ease. The time change put us in to Indiana pretty late, but the kids easily went to bed after quickly saying hi to Grandma and Grandpa and new puppy Pebbles. There would be plenty of time for play.

The next day, the fun began.


Pebbles is a very adorable Maltese/Poodle mix. She's a puppy, very smart, and quickly got used to the kids, though she did continue, at times, to treat them as toys.