Teach them to your children, talking about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.
(Deuteronomy 11:19)Children should be able to talk to parents about anything that makes them sad, scared, or confused and not to their coaches/teachers/non-family member. If anyone who tells your child not to tell/talk to you is a bully (Do not trust him).
Do your job as a parent and stop blaming others (coach,teacher,friends and your child).
Get involved; be positive; cheer and support your child; Spend time with your child and maybe you might also learn something too.
- Teach to respect the private parts of others and to expect others to do the same.
- Talk about whom the child can tell if someone makes him feel uncomfortable when he is away from home.
- Listen when your child tries to tell you something, especially when it seems hard for him to talk about it.
- Make sure your child knows it's OK to tell you about anyone that makes him feel uncomfortable, no matter whom that person may be.
- Ask your child what he would do in certain situations and how to recognize danger.
- Child should be aware of places where sexual abuse could happen, such as video arcades, malls, locker rooms, and out-of-the-way places outdoors.
- Talk about peer pressure.
- Make safety plans with your child so he knows what to do if he is asked to use drugs or alcohol, smoke, touch someone sexually, steal, cheat, or bully.
- Teach your child about sexual abuse.
- Watch your child and always know your child is doing.
- Talk/teach your child about sexual behavior (touching, talking) and teach them to respect, honoring other people.
Please spend time reading your Bible with your child. Blessed is the one who reads the words, hear the words and keep the words. (Revelation 1:3)