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First off, I'm new here, so hi girlies!
Ok, here's the story. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I'm so confused! ( Read more... )
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| A Big Decision... |
[28 Mar 2004|08:47pm] |
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Well the love of my life which I currently told all of yall about asked me a question today:
Dee - How much do you love me?
Me - Alot.
Dee - How much is alot.
Me - Alot....why?
Dee - When we graduate would you move with me to Virgina and help me support us until I go into the airforce?
Me - Yes.
Dee - I want you to think about it and I'll call you back in a little while because I'm at work.
Me - K. bye.
Now you guys....I've been thinkin about it and I'm scared what if I move all the way up there and he goes off to the airforce and leave me alone for a while, seeing as I don't know anyone up there...so those six weeks or wutever I would be alone....This is a big decision....My heart says yes upfront...but my mind isn't to sure....HELP!!!
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[27 Mar 2004|07:23pm] |
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well thanx u all but it hasnt really worked
i dont think me and him will ever get back to gether or ever actuly be feriends and it really hurts not to mention all the stress and anger that comes along with it
im not sure what to do i kidna wanna be friends with him ATLEAST but all my friends hate his guts im not tooo sure what to to i dont kno if being friends with him would hurt me emotionaly or whatever or if i should just listen to my friends and stay away
oh god this shit sux
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[27 Mar 2004|12:26pm] |
So I recently joined this community, and I need some advice about this guy. I'm not sure if things are really over now, but ahh read it, (Friends with Benefits)
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[26 Mar 2004|02:49pm] |
ok i posted earlier on my belly button thing...is for the the first week or two a little ring around the top which is slightley red? and the top ball is wearing a little layer of skin away...will it grow back or is that bad?...either way its not infected i just had these few questions...
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| thanks for all your help.. |
[26 Mar 2004|12:48pm] |
hey..i was just wondering if you cn give head with a sore thoat..will anything happen to me or him? and is it easy to spread a sore throat?
if you didn't guess i have a sore throat and i'm going to see my boyfriend.
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| Should I Let It Go? |
[26 Mar 2004|01:57pm] |
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Well you guys this is currently my senior year of high school in Fayetteville, NC and my ninth grade year I fell in love with my "true love". And Basically I relationship was perfect....untill the beginning of my tenth grade year in September his dad get's stationed in Columbia, SC...Which bites because "our love" couldn't get anybetter so... We dealt with the long distance relationship for about a year until that next November and in between he comes about every two months to see me...which is better than most couples....then he starts to move on or wutever....because we can't deal with being apart....I mean I still love him and I think he still loves me....but I wanted to know should I wait for him to return to me when he graduates this year....or should I move on? Because we have always made plans for the future, but we never said if they were still in motion. I mean we decided to break up together, but we said that "we were meant to be" and that fate would bring us back together. I mean we still talk but just as friends maybe a little more, but we really don't talk about us anymore.
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| Am i InLove? |
[26 Mar 2004|12:38pm] |
I dont know .. this might sound weird, that i dont know if im inlove or not? Haha, but really i just dont know. So ill tell some of the story.
Okay, well i went out with a boy from about 18 months. It was back in the 7-8-9th grade. I thought i was inlove with him, like really.. INLOVE. I always think about him still, but i dont know if i LOVE Him. When i see him i feel sick, and i want to cry, but when im with my boyfriend or friends i dont care about him and it doesnt matter. Yes i have a boyfriend right now, we dont say i love you because we DONT love eachother. Which is good. But yeah.. so when i see him i get all sad. We had sex not that long ago.. it was not when we were going out it was about 2 years AFTER we broke up. Now he doesnt talk to me, its like he got everything he wanted from me and now doesnt want to talk. He told me he loved me and i was his everything, and he said this for about 2 years. And i said the same to him, because i thought i did. He makes me crazy, i had to go through years of counsiling because of how i felt about him. He was my boyfriend, my best friend... everything to me. And now that i dont have him i feel like i have close too nothing. But i dont know if i LOVE him.. maybe i do, but i cant tell. It might seem stupid but i always wonder it. We blocked eachother and dont talk any more, i told myself its time to say goodbye and FOREVER this time because we have said goodbye so many times. I plan on not talking to him until he matures, but still... hes in my dreams and i think about him all the time. If he ever needed someone id be there, even after all the shit he put me through. And it kills me too look at his profile or hear him say he "Loves" another girl. I have only "Loved" or came close to loving him. It sucks.. Please, some advice or something. I dont even know what to do with myself anymore!
Thank you
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| advice please =(( |
[26 Mar 2004|10:40am] |
Hey, first off.. this isn't my real journal *laughs*. I just made this one to join the community so my boyfriend doesn't know it's me and thinks i'm a psycho or whatever.
Well, me and my boyfriend have been together a little over 2 months, it isn't a lot.. i know, but i've NEVER felt like this about a boy before. I've never been in love before. Well onto the story.. my boyfriend was in love with a girl before we started dating.. and she was the type of girl not to care about her boyfriends and she has a crush on every guy. She always made him feel like shit.. and got mad and bitched at him for everything. Well we started going out and he sais stuff to me like he hates her, and bad stuff, i don't know if i can say them in here so i won't lol. He told me it took him like 4 months to tell her he loved her, and he told me he loved me like a week into the relationship and said it seemed so natural. He tells me stuff like i'm what he's always wanted and stuff like that. Recently he's been talking to his ex again and i'm wicked scared because i don't know if he likes her again. I know his EX because i go to school with her, well all 3 of us go to the same school. I talked to his best friend about the situation and he said don't worry about it my boyfriend loves me and i'm just parranoid because i've never felt like this about a boy. But like, one time i was at his house and he was talking to her online but i couldn't see what they were saying and all i saw was <33, now i know i'm being silly but it just got me wicked upset because i don't know what they were for. He kept exiting the IM out and everything they said was at least 2 lines long. I have no clue what they were talking about but he kept exiting out the IM and i think it was so i couldn't see it. Errr.. i don't know what to do.. they always talk now. I guess you could call it jelousy, but i really don't know what to think. About a week ago i went to his house with him and we went into his room and his little brother was like "Ashley called you earlier" (his ex) and i was like wow.. i know i'm over reacting a wicked lot but it makes me feel like complete SHIT when they talk because he tells me all this stuff but then talks to her.
Ugh, well if you have anything similar to that or whatever or have any advice on what i should do tell me please.. it doesn't sound like anything big but i HAAATE when they talk because i know how he was in love with her and i'm wicked scared he's starting to like her again...
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| Stupid question I know... |
[26 Mar 2004|01:58am] |
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What's the kind of calendar that counts the days of the year in a row? Like, for example, today is day 86 (or close to it) of 366???
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| A little "survey" |
[25 Mar 2004|11:55pm] |
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How many piercings and where do you have them? How many tattoos?
I just have my ears pierced once, but I want them pierced one more time, as well as my cartilage.
I also want to be a filmmaker, and I love movies, so I want a bunch of little tattoos, little pictures representing all of "my movies."
How bout all of you?
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| Too many questions... |
[25 Mar 2004|06:48pm] |
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OK, I have this friend of mine.
Whenever I'm feeling down, she always asks me what's wrong.
Problem is, she keeps asking until I get irritated.
Sometimes I just don't want to talk, you know?
Does anyone know how I can NICELY tell her to not ask me so many questions?
I don't want to hurt her feelings, but I just want her to be able to leave me alone when I want some me time.
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| I got this off the Seventeen magazine not too long ago |
[25 Mar 2004|01:40pm] |
Five signs you may be in way too deep
Wondering how to tell if you may be crazy in love?
-> You and your guy are together 24/7. You've dropped most of your close friends and spend less time with your family.
-> You don't have your own interests anymore. You've taken up his hobbies and let yours slide.
-> You start doing stuff you wouldn't have done before you met him.
-> You start dressing solely to please him. Or you go further sexually than you want to.
-> You fear you love him more than he loves you. Being insecure about a relationship can lead you to do drastic things.
The thought of being single is devastating. Its great to have a guy, but its important to be OK without one.
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[25 Mar 2004|01:50pm] |
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not sure if this is the right place for this, but...
where do you buy cute bras that don't break the bank and that are actually wearable (ie with underwires and some support)?
i can hardly find anything anywhere. i'm 34 C, which isn't too hard to find, but all i ever find is boring plain stuff or just lace or maybe a floral. i want cute and colorful.
they seem to Occasionally have stuff at target, but it's either too expensive or doesn't fit/has no support...
thanks.
xxo
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[23 Mar 2004|03:36pm] |
Hi, I’m Lindsay and new to the community and am in desperate need of advice.
The Situation: I like this boy for like 3 weeks and constantly talk about him to my friends. On the other hand, this boy likes me and does the same thing talking about me to his friends. We are on some retreat for school and we end up hooking up on Friday night. We both liked each other so it was all good. On Saturday night, he hooked up with this other girl, who many have told him and I that she is a lot less worse looking than I. His friends and mine all bailed him out for doing what he did, but the thing is…I still REALLY like him, I mean feelings don’t go away over night. What should I do, I don’t know what to say to this guy? (He did by the way apologize) Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
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| Argg! So much for that idea!! |
[21 Mar 2004|06:53pm] |
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When you get stood-up is it okay to call the guy still? Im not talking stalker style, just call him that night to see if he's even coming and/or calling him the next day to be like "Umm, you still alive?" Normally, I would just count him out. . .but I got such a good vibe from this guy and we got along so well. . . .
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hi i dont think i have posted in here in a while
but i just needed some advice on my ex boyfriend
i still love him i think....i do but i dont think he feels the same he says he loves me but that a relationship between me and him wont work but he still likes to have sex....this is hard for me because he was my first "real" boyfriend and the one i lost my virginity to....all i want is to still be with him and have him hold me and touch me . but im afriad its never goin to be the same. and i dont want him to use me anymore if that is what he did....
he has the reputation to be one of the bigest man whores in our skool. but when i would talk to people that are friends with him they would say i dont think he used you by the way he would talk about you .
im just sooo confused and lost in feelings i dont know what emotions i should have and i dont know what to do
would somebody help me.
before i break down!
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I like someone else but my boyfriend will literally kill himself if we broke up. I don't know if I really like the person, and I would def. not risk losing him. I guess I'm just tired of the same person. Ah. I'm a bad girlfriend. Yessah.
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| genetic? |
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Hi *waves to everyone* Ok well I'm usually never worried about much and I don't over react about much, but there is one thing I constantly worrie about. I constantly am worried that I'm going to be dumped. I'm really worried rite now and I dunno why. I'm totally afraid that someone better then me will show up and take him from me. And the thing is it will happen eventually because I can't have such a great person to myself forever when there are people who are better then me out there. I was talking to my friend last nite and she said she worries about that alot too. I was basically wondering if anyone else stresses about this?? Is it like a genetic thing within the female race to worrie about these things?
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[21 Mar 2004|10:52am] |
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how do you tell a guy you like him?
with out actually telling you like him
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