07:59pm 12/12/2003
  dainty & dirty clothing now available in SF at:

Venus Superstar
1112 Sutter St.

Needles + Pens
483 14th Street (at Guerrero)

also at a special holiday sale, saturday dec 20th at

Mimi Barr
3153 16th Street @ Guerrero

i'll be working up a lot more designs and things and hopefully have the site up 100% by early january. how do people get their stuff into magazines and zines and what not? if anyone here is involved with anything like that i can send you things or let you know when everything is up. any advice helpful.

i do too much!! band film clothing work life love kittens. *explode*

i got my hair cut today. now i have a skater mullet. it is short on one side and long on the other and weird. i like it. the rain ruined the flat iron and its all fuzzy fuzz on the side but i'll try to recreate the good stuff tomorrow for the show.

( + pictures. exciting. )

note to self: decide your sexuality at some point and go with that.		  
     
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11:21am 12/12/2003
 


tomorrow!! my birthday!! please come or tell your SF friends to come --we need to get a good crowd as it's one of our first real venues + it's hard to break that glass ceiling, + we will bring the rock and you will LIKE IT. yes. thank you.		  
     
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04:27pm 10/12/2003
 

i ordered this skirt to wear on my birthday and it's too big. waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah. i wonder if i should ebay it, or try to make it smaller?		  
     
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the diva is IN   
12:06pm 10/12/2003
 


every year i get super excited about birthdays but end up kind of disappointed. i'm a princess. to me it's the one day to be really decadent and blissed out, pedicures, massages, haircuts, really amazing food and wine and pastry. posh. hopefully i'll have a nice dinner at millennium with tasty desserts and maybe a movie or something afterward with keith on friday. then the show, which hopefully will be more of a club/party feel and not really a focus on birthdayness. except with loads of nice champagne. not so much too ask. it's strange, the last few years i've really wanted elegant celebrations, cocktail parties, dressing up, going to tea, nice well-made gourmet dinners, candlelight. i'm getting older. maybe i'll have a post-xmas cocktail party if i ever find my white tree. glittery and 60's swank, low lights and martini glasses.

until then, here are some birthday rules:
1. no beverage on my person
2. no cake on my person
3. no singing, i hate that weird attentiony moment. it's mortifying.
4. no tacky airbrushed cakes or anything like that
5. no spanking
6. balloons can be ok
7. no chocolate cake, yuck!
8. tiramisu is good
9. no streamers, noisemakers, or anything stupid that would be at a 5 year olds birthday party
10. no surprise parties

though if you know me, you know all this by now. mwah!!		  
     
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09:22pm 09/12/2003
  this city should burn.


no. this country should burn.		  
     
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10:03am 09/12/2003
 
music: mommy & daddy - outside
so. hung. over.

ow.
yesterday i got lunch in north beach with rachie and finally met gina, who is pretty as hell. then i made 0957340987 flyers for the show. then alli and i flyered and ate sushi with nick. then we had practice. then we went barhoppeeen.

matt gonzalez was at the phonebooth last night. he needs a better suit. maybe i'll sew him a little mod one.

i want to sit in a hot tub with a cold face mask on while eating frozen grapes and apricot nectar. now. thanks.

also, even my fat pants are tight on me. this aging thing is bullshit. wah.		  
     
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12:59am 09/12/2003
  i
'm a driunkerdst monkey ever and also i bjhave a new ahat a hat ans anlso i loopk like an asshole
( lookit see )		  
     
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03:32pm 08/12/2003
  dainty & dirty sale page


& also...i'm trying to decide what sizes should be. i know a medium will be 36-28-38, but what should small and large be? any input welcome.

p.s. please pass on to anyone who might be interested. thanks!		  
     
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08:59pm 07/12/2003
  i couldnt find white xmas trees. i am totally upset. grrr.
however, i did eat krispy kreme to top off our white trash shopping adventure, and get cute tissue paper from target.

now, house cleaning, organizing my sewing area, and later, posting a dainty & dirty sale section. yay.		  
     
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03:36pm 05/12/2003
 



sorry about the proliferation of flyers!@
this show is on my birthday and it will FUKKEN ROCK.
get there.

  
     
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02:05am 04/12/2003
 


after the von iva show, which was very good

( and before )
  
     
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12:11pm 03/12/2003
  last night i booked tickets to colorado to spend the holidays with keiths family.

panic setting in! i dont DO well in family settings! how will i BEHAVE!?

and a rental car was too $$ so the escape route is right out.

and what do i bring them for a gift?		  
     
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10:28am 01/12/2003
  so i turn 28 december 13th. i'm feeling pretty uninspired and depressed these days, but here's ( my pretend wish list for this year )  
     
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04:51pm 30/11/2003
  maybe drinking spiced wine by myself on a rainy day was NOT the best way to be productiveeeee. ooooohh...dasdnhklhjdet!  
     
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12:31pm 30/11/2003
   
     
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12:58pm 26/11/2003
  http://punxfordean.org/ put one of our songs on their site, and want to put us on a comp. how rad! i'm still 100% behind dean, damn all the doubters.  
     
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01:09pm 25/11/2003
  the day before a 5 day weekend == BOREDOM at work.

find me these mp3s -

rock&roll; - lou reed
kiss off - violent femmes

thanks ever so.

i shouldn't have eaten that mint chip gelato, but damn was it good. please amuse me, or at least give me a task.

note to self:
∞italians do it better tshirt screen
∞annie potts in pretty in pink
∞renew passport
∞get shows
∞yams are good		  
     
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11:15am 25/11/2003
  ( are ICONS so wrong? )  
     
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10:07pm 24/11/2003
  ( i am intoxicated and i enjoy anne sexton )  
     
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08:50am 21/11/2003
  cold nose and concrete floors. walked to haight and back yesterday via the castro, traipse tripping uphill/downhill, nose pressed to glass and fogging up windows. the holidays make me both joyous and longing, it's not the actual meaning but the puddles of light on dark sidewalks, vignettes of coziness i never seem to be able to attain. i need to make my living space more agreeable to rest, soothing, meditation. nooks. altars. rugs, pillows, small lamps.

today i have been given the day off work as everyone there is ill, and i will get a massage and walk more, look at furniture and futons (maybe a small chair one for curling up and also houseguests - marina, rachie.) i need to carve a cozy space, tune my energy, calm the chaos. zen.

the xmas tree i want is white and plastic, which isn't cozy at all. my parents, when first married, had a tiny tree covered in tiny pink matte pearl balls and topped with a dove. my very mod mothers idea. even in high school, there would be a few fragile pink ornaments in the boxes as we unpacked the christmas decorations, more crumbling under clumsy fingers every year.		  
     
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