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So I've been sitting back in the community and thinking of things to bitch about. It's now reached a point where I need to bitch, and I don't want to.
I met this guy about a month ago, and we clicked. We started dating eachother, then he slamed on the breaks and said because of the distance, we should only "see" eachother. In the begining I could understand, we live about an hour away from eachother and it is difficult to have a good relationship when it's comutting. But then one of my friends told me she kept getting this sketchy feeling from him. I didn't really think too much about it and continued on my way. About a week ago, I went to see him, and we took the relationship father than I wanted to go, we had sex. Afterwards he said I was "worthy" of him. WTF buddy, how about you tryin to impress me? I blew that off because I wasnt in the mood to start a fight. Then he started getting all shifty with me, not calling me, not talking to me online, etc. Figured I'd back off for a lil while. We finially talked earlier last week, he said he missed me and he wanted to chill. So we set up a time and I got all excited. That time came and he blew me off. Said that he had some things to do and he'd call me later. Well he didnt. When I called him, he ignored his phone. Ok, so I stopped calling. We talked online later that week and he asked me if I wanted to chill on thursday, I said sure, what time. He told me he'd call me cause he had some things to do. I called him around 3 and he told me to come up. So I make me way up to his house and end up meeting his best friend and his brother. I'm thinking "Cool, I'm being introduced to his friends and family." So we're chillin in his driveway and his best friend said "Oh and his girlfriend, my sister-in law..." My jaw dropped; he told me he was single. I give him a look, and he gives me a "yeah we'll talk about this" kinda look. So we take off to the bank because he wanted to explain. He's been "seeing" both me and this other chick at the same time. He then says that he wants to see who he falls for first, but he doesnt want to fall for his buddy's sister-in law because then his buddy is going to know everything that happens with him and her. Ok, so how do I react to that? I asked him if they were having sex and he said no. So we get to the bank and he goes in. I grab my cally and dial my friend; I need to discuss things with SOMEONE other than him, a female! She keeps tellin me how she wouldnt be putting up with this shit and how she cant believe that I am and blah blah blah. He gets back into the car and I hang up. He tells me that I'm not in competition with this other girl and winks at me. Right on. So we get back to his house and we chill with everyone. His father comes home and he doesnt introduce me to his father. So I introduce myself. Later on his mother comes home and again he doesnt intorduce me. We leave and go to the mall so he can get something for work. Get back to his house and we're all hanging out playing cards. Time for me to leave, he walks me outside and says he's going to come see me this week. He gives me a half-assed hug and I get into my car. His buddy comes out and makes me laugh and then goes back into the house. I called him Friday (after I had been drinking the entire night) to see what he's doing for the weekend, he says he's chillin with his buddy all weekend. I asked him the other chicks name, and he tells me it's Kim. k, whatever. He tells me I'm drunk and to call him later. Next morning I call him around 12 to see if he wants to chill, he said yeh, but he's got some errands to run, call him in an hour to an hour and a half. So an hour and a half later I call him, he picks up and says he's still doing the errands, give him another half hour. So I call him an hour later, no pick up. I think I called him three times in 3 hours to see if he wanted to chill. Last time I called I left a message, "I thought we were going to chill, guess not." I've been chasing after him for 2 weeks now and everyone and their mom kepts tellin me to leave him. I've decided that I'm done and he has my number if he wants to chill. I thought I was done with all this dating crap though. He was so sweet and everything that I wanted; and he's gone.
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