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13 Ways to Quit ANYTHING

Posted: 03/26/2012 8:20 am

Many people assume an addict only refers to someone who is an alcoholic, chain smoker or drug user with a "hard" habit. But in Unhooked: How To Quit Anything [Skyhorse Publishing, $14.95], a book I co-authored with the addiction specialist who helped me quit my long-term addictions to cigarettes, alcohol and marijuana, I show how you can also get hooked on such "soft" habits as Facebook, over-exercising, drinking too much diet soda or eating too much ice cream. Regardless of what kind of habit you want to break, here are ways I recommend to begin the process. Remember, when you get rid of a toxic habit in your life you are leaving room for something beautiful to take its place.

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To quit an addiction, start writing every day, whether it's in a journal, a loose-leaf notebook, a desktop computer, or an iPad. Jot down your feelings, your food or drug intake, your plans, or poems, songs, or adages you like. Get specific about your habits. Instead of identifying "smoking," admit that you've "smoked a pack a day of Marlboros for twenty years" and all the methods you've tried to quit in the past. "Overeating" is too general; emulate the novel Bridget Jones' Diary and detail: "pigged out on cookies at 2:00 AM again."
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Many people assume an addict only refers to someone who is an alcoholic, chain smoker or drug user with a "hard" habit. But in Unhooked: How To Quit Anything [Skyhorse Publishing, $14.95], a book I c...
Many people assume an addict only refers to someone who is an alcoholic, chain smoker or drug user with a "hard" habit. But in Unhooked: How To Quit Anything [Skyhorse Publishing, $14.95], a book I c...
 
 
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10 hours ago ( 1:59 PM)
Just quit.
11 hours ago (12:55 PM)
You are quite right, I was addicted to Double Stuff Oreo's and milk, I would go through 3 to 4 bags of Oreo's a week at 30 cookies a bag!!

I gave them up for Lent, it's been weeks since I have had an Oreo.........I stay away from the cookie aisle when shopping.
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9 hours ago ( 3:00 PM)
I went through the same thing last year (with regular oreos) after having my daughter. I would 2-3 bags a week. gained 40 or 50 lbs. I couldn't take looking like that, so I stopped and stayed away from shopping all together. It is funny how fast I dropped the weight once I cut the cookies out (2 weeks). Good luck with your fast. YOU CAN DO IT!
9 hours ago ( 3:43 PM)
I had that same addiction, I loved double stuff oreo's I quit buying them, it's been almost 2 yrs since I have had even one, lost 40 lbs since then....
6 hours ago ( 6:39 PM)
They’re insidious, they have Oreo cookie ice cream, crushed Oreo sprinkles, Oreo cereal…..
They should be regulated by the FDA!! Oreos should be considered a “controlled substance”
Worse than crack addiction!!! I love birthday cakes, the butter cream icing, and yellow cake with pineapple filling………
The Ghouls at Oreo came out with a “100 year anniversary” cookie with birthday cake filling!!!
I won’t “crack” under the pressure!!!!
My Grandchildren are limited to Famous Amos Chocolate Chip…….There was never an Oreo cookie left when they visited in the past.
12 hours ago (12:15 PM)
I smoked cigarettes for over 30 years, 1-2 packs a day. Through prayer I was able to quit in 11/11. I still have days of craving, or more accurately an hour here and there of craving, but my lungs are happy, as is my family.
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Catalina hime
9 hours ago ( 3:02 PM)
I really wish my dad would quit. I would do anything, but he does not believe he needs to quit.
7 hours ago ( 5:17 PM)
He has to WANT to quit or sadly it won't work.
13 hours ago (10:53 AM)
I quit drinking hard liquor by paying myself what I would have spent on liquor. I wait til the end of the month and then go get the money at the bank and then bring it home and put it in a safe. Now what to buy? Its working for me.
14 hours ago (10:25 AM)
I find it sad that people are still trying to get around the simple fact of what really helps a person put an addiction behind them. Every person who has tried to get clean without the help of God (or if you will a higher power) has either failed or have become totally miserable. The 12 step program has never failed as long as it is totally followed 100%. Anytime someone tells you it didn't work for them is because they tried to do it their own way. This writer gets close on a couple of points but truly misses the mark on many. All she is trying to do is use a secular method that doctors, psychiatrists, and therapists have been using and implementing a portion of the 12 step method.
And just so you all know I tried to quit many times on my own and using methods like the ones in this article and failed miserably. When I trusted God to run my life and follow a tried and tested program 100% I have been drug free, alcohol free, and smoke free for over 15 years.
7 hours ago ( 5:12 PM)
I'm grateful for what worked for you. I would say the writer of the article was right on. The writer "introduced" recovery programs as part of the solution. It's the introduction to me that worked, not preaching about God and saying I must get the Spiritual part of the program to really get it. The key for me was the introduction to recovery, the suggestion of 90 meetings in 90 days to see if I wanted to stay or not.
7 hours ago ( 5:28 PM)
I got clean without the help of God. Clean since 1997.

I think it's awesome that you were able to get clean with God's help, but making a blanket statement that people can't beat their addictions without God is false.

The fact is that many people are able to get clean without God's help. Were your statement true, then there would be no athiest recovering adicts.
15 hours ago ( 9:46 AM)
AA is a beautiful, spiritual program....
20 hours ago ( 4:27 AM)
Step 1.Slip out back, Jack. 2.Make new plan, Stan. 3.Don't be coy, Roy 3.Listen to me 4.Hop on bus, etc...
10:22 PM on 03/26/2012
Great post. If you liked it, check out my blog post "A Diet You Will Not Give Up On - Tips and Tricks - The Declaration of Commitment and My Story: How I Ride My Bike To and From Work Every Day"

http://myblog.nicoleelmore.com/2012/03/21/the-diet-you-will-not-give-up-on.aspx

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GraniteSkyline
I wish you happiness!
06:42 PM on 03/26/2012
Any advice on quitting an H P addiction?
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USAGramma
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14 hours ago (10:00 AM)
lol
14 hours ago (10:27 AM)
1. Copy and paste this article.

2. Start using drugs.

3. Once hooked, refer back to this article.

4. Repeat.
05:41 PM on 03/26/2012
i love the ppl saying all you need to quit an addiction is will power. oh, is that all? if only someone else had thought of that!
21 hours ago ( 2:57 AM)
Yes, it all depends on the will power of a person.
I smoked cigarettes for more than 30 years and kicked the habit as soon as I wanted to do it. No ifs, buts or any lame excuse that will make me change my mind to try one last time..
So whenever someone offers me cigarettes, I politely decline to accept. I just say I'd already stopped smoking.
To such an answer, the usual following question was "since when did you stop?"
And my usual answer was, "3 hours ago/"
I know that a laughter will ensue so I add another short sentence, "and 10 more years.' So more laughter."
But it's the truth. I kicked the habit more than about 15 years ago and never did have a craving to smoke again. It's the same with drinking spirits or liquor. whereas before I used to have 1 too many at any given time when I wanted to be out of my mind, I was able to control myself gradually even in drinking sessions so that my friends were really surprised to hear me say I have enough after 2 or 3 shots of whiskey or gin.
Or maybe the lines in Desiderata which said that we must "Heed the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth" had a deep impact on my way of thinking.
Gerry

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11 hours ago (12:57 PM)
you were very lucky. for many, will power has absolutely nothing to do with it anymore. and im not talking about cigarettes. im talking about addiction in general. its like saying one can cure their homelessness by getting a job. it is not always that simple.
05:36 PM on 03/26/2012
This ad may be so but I was able to quit cold turkey with the help of prayer. If you belive in him and have faith in him he is a can make a miracle happen, I say this because it happened to me I was an alcoholic in the year 2000 and encountered big health issues, so it was in my best interests to quit because I happen to have been reading on a medical book that helped me diagnose my chronic problem and discovered it two weeks prior to the doctor being able to give me my results from the tests that were taken. Read in this medical book that the physican was going to tell me to quit drinking so I went ahead and concentrated on a prayer and was successful. Cigareetes the same way I was addicted for 33 years since starting at the age of 16 and tried to quit several times before , even hippnotized and they never worked. I then tried with total belief in prayer so I do believe deeply in Jesus. I was once again Blessed. I am no saint and will never claim to be anything other than a human being who has been blessed through Jesus my personal savior. Believe because you can do anything you set your mind to so believe in yourself and then you will have to work through prayers I recommend. Goodluck to you if you try to quit any habits that will help. Jaxster
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Dogma
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21 hours ago ( 3:16 AM)
When I kicked heroin and cocaine in 1995, I made a promise to The Divine, "I will never stick another needle in my arm if you PLEASE just help me get through this".

Obviously making conditional promises to God is crude, to say the least. But it worked, if for no other reason than it made me think twice before breaking this sacred pact.
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AlsoSarah
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05:20 PM on 03/26/2012
Alot of these suggestions make alot of sense. I quit smoking back in the 80's. I set a target date, prepared myself for that date. I acknowledged that I was going to feel like cr@p. I took it easy on myself getting extra sleep and just going through the motions. I compared it to having a flu for a week. After the first week things got better. But acceptance of the fact you are not going to feel great is the first step in quitting.
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13champlain
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05:14 PM on 03/26/2012
Own up and stop....or don't its a choice, not an illness
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Dogma
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21 hours ago ( 3:07 AM)
That's a half-truth. No, addiction is not an illness or a disease in the classical sense, but some people are certainly more genetically hardwired for addiction than others. Then you have the family history, social environment, education, etc etc.

(And, if you believe in the Cosmic Law of Cause and Effect in reincarnation, there are karmic issues that follow a person.)

So sure, eventually it comes down to saying Yes or No, but it is so much more complex than that. That's a bit like saying, all you need to do to start the car is turn the key, or not.
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13champlain
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16 hours ago ( 8:35 AM)
its "more complicated" ... the refuge of truth deniers
12 hours ago (12:48 PM)
once you become addicted, the choice is gone.

sounds to me like you're not an addict. you should be grateful.
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05:12 PM on 03/26/2012
I have smoked for 40 yrs. I have no medical issues. I had a thorough physical last year, including chest x-rays and stress test. For my age and length of time I have smoked, my doctor was surprised that I was in such good condition. I have reduced my cigarette consumption only because of the outrageous cost, thanks to increased taxes from both State and Fed. They tell me the high tax is to help support CHIP. Glad to help. I believe it is discrimination to impose such taxes on one segment of society. Smoking is an individual choice. Maybe Big Gov't should put a 200% tax on beer, alcohol, ice cream, diet soda, vegetable oil, outdoor cookouts. Why stop at cigarettes. Maybe then we will reduce drunk driving and over weight people.
05:06 PM on 03/26/2012
I plan on at least ATTEMPTING to quit smoking once I graduate. I don't want to stress myself out for finals even more.