I have heard a lot about moms taking their daughters to "The Nutcracker" and making it a special time. After much research I was VERY disappointed that we would not be able to afford to start that tradition this year. So, Anneke and I talked about what we could do instead. She chose what we would do for a few hours on Saturday.
First, we went to story time at Barnes and Noble. After listening to "The Polar Express" she made a gingerbread girl pin. 
We then went to the cafe and had a red velvet cupcake and hot chocolate. The cupcake was very small and more expensive than the huge cookies or big buttercream cupcakes, but I let her choose. She did not like it. But, I was proud of myself.
Then we went to the mall to play on the play place. We saw a Bath and Bodyworks, and I thought she would like to put on some smelly good lotion. While in there she picked out soaps for her teachers, Marcus's teacher, herself, Grammy and her Aunt Jamie. She would have kept going, but I had to limit it. Thanks goodness for the 4 for $10 sale. ;) However, Anneke's favorite part was the free gift we got with the purchase. It was one of those wallets that unzip into a bag. I remember that my mom had one we loved growing up. It was not anything out of the ordinary, but it was fun.I have struggled with my relationship with Anneke. This small thing has sure helped me appreciate her more.
