Dr. Lelord is, in fact, a psychiatrist. His first installment outlined his pursuit to accurately describe and define the term, "happiness." What does it mean to be happy? How does it feel? How do different cultures experience it? (He actually traveled to several different countries to survey this topic.) It's a must read!! The second book, then, tells tales of love abroad. I'm loving it, so far!
Showing posts with label book club. Show all posts
Showing posts with label book club. Show all posts
6.01.2011
Hector
5.31.2011
Thx!
I got this from Joanna over at A Cup of Jo. How cute is this?? Leah, such a gem, started a blog to show off her thank you note skills, just because her mother always encouraged her to write a proper thank you note growing up. My mom trained me well, too, insisting I write thank you's for every gift and well-wish. I've come to appreciate thank you notes as a lost art. Nobody (and I mean, hardly anyone!!) does thank you notes any more. So, these simply made my day. Plus, they're funny! Enjoy! :)
(She has a book that I desperately want to have!)
(Perhaps my favy so far!)
5.07.2010
Mole People
I'm reading a new book... Mole People, by Jennifer Toth, per the suggestion of my dear friend Rachel. It's most certainly an interesting read, outlining life in the tunnels below New York City. Since living here for a few years now, the stories hit home. The author acknowledges places like "48th Street between 10th and 11th Avenues... Trains enter the city from New Jersey..." where "houseless" people gain access to their homes. Yes, indeed, this is my neighborhood. Many of the stories are frightful, as the author interviewed real people who are really living under the city, in areas like Grand Central, Penn Station, and Port Authority.
Perhaps what is most interesting for me, is that people living under the city have developed families, communities, lives. Many people maintain a certain lifestyle by themselves, but many of them choose to stay social. They have beds, televisions, refrigerators. It's intense. According to the reports outlined in the book, the life expectancy is much lower, but people do survive underground, and choose this lifestyle over the hectic world above.
Let me tell you, busting out this book while sitting on the subway... I get plenty of interesting looks from my fellow car-riders. I'm not finished just yet, but I'm getting close. Need a read that will keep your attention? Pick this up.
Perhaps what is most interesting for me, is that people living under the city have developed families, communities, lives. Many people maintain a certain lifestyle by themselves, but many of them choose to stay social. They have beds, televisions, refrigerators. It's intense. According to the reports outlined in the book, the life expectancy is much lower, but people do survive underground, and choose this lifestyle over the hectic world above.
Let me tell you, busting out this book while sitting on the subway... I get plenty of interesting looks from my fellow car-riders. I'm not finished just yet, but I'm getting close. Need a read that will keep your attention? Pick this up.
Book Shelves
Remember this...
Well, it's now this...
And I would really, really, really prefer something like this...
Welp, a setup like this is darn near impossible in my current little nest, but maybe I can land a sweet loft and take over an entire wall. I think being surrounded by so many books would have a calming effect on me. What has a calming effect on you??
Well, it's now this...
And I would really, really, really prefer something like this...
Welp, a setup like this is darn near impossible in my current little nest, but maybe I can land a sweet loft and take over an entire wall. I think being surrounded by so many books would have a calming effect on me. What has a calming effect on you??
4.30.2010
The Science of Happiness
I'm a happy person, oh yes. I am most definitely a very happy person. (I just love, love, love my happy things!) I'm also a grad student in a scientific field, so when these two passions of mine come together, oooh myyy - the outcome is downright magnificent!
Upon awakening this morning, I flipped on the tube to the news, as per my usual morning routine. I was sparked by a new headline... "The Science of Happiness." The Today show did a segment about genetically determined features of happiness, and their environmental counterparts that may trigger glee in our lives. What'd I do next, you ask? I googled it, natch!
My findings... I found article after article after article discussing the nature/nurture debate - how we, as humans, may be genetically determined to seek happiness in our lives, but stumble across triggers in our environment that encourage us to maintain our happiness. Of course, professionals in the field could argue for years (as they have already) over the importance of nature and nurture combining forces; there is certainly no absolute answer on this, as of yet. (Which school of thought do you follow, nature/ nurture/ nature & nurture?) It is important to note, however, I am not ruling out the relevance of depression. Major Depressive Disorder, or MDD, is an intense diagnosis and emerges from a variety of events - genetic and environmental. As a student of Psychology, I may argue, perhaps our genetics are the driving force behind finding happiness in our lives. Although we may very well be predetermined to become happy people, perhaps our genes act as the catalyst for embracing what occurs in our environments. Here, the two perspectives merge together in a new way.
Scientists simply love the act of research, but always come across the same problem when evaluating an idea... "But how do we measure it?" The BBC did a wonderful series on the science of happiness, as they discussed the importance of measuring happiness. At this point, self-report becomes the ideal way to measure how happy one is at different points in his or her life. Naturally, there are drawbacks to using this style of data collection... We'll save that for another post... So then, back to the BBC... After administering a survey to participants, a correlation, or pattern, began to emerge. "Significant relationships between happiness and some other factor were repeated." In science, the word "prove" is a bad, bad word. We cannot "prove" anything. We can certainly suggest that a significant relationship exists, but we cannot say definitively that "A" caused "B." There are simply too many other factors that can potentially impact a relationship. So, what are these "factors," you ask? Professor Ed Diener from the University of Illinois reported some of them...
"First, family and friends are crucial - the wider and deeper the relationships with those around you the better. It is even suggested that friendship can ward off germs. Our brains control many of the mechanisms in our bodies which are reponsible for disease."
"The second vital ingredient is having meaning in our lives - something bigger than yourself - from religion, spirtuality, or a philosophy of life."
"The third element is having goals embedded in your long term values that you're working for, but also that you find enjoyable."
Ahh, perhaps some of this seems kind of obvious... "Duh, we need meaning to be happy," but the truth is... Many people fail to recognize this, as they struggle with developing and/or maintaining the tools necessary to pursue a meaningful life. Is this problematic and ideal, then, when the "formula" for happiness is dramatically different for each and every one of us? "According to the positive psychologist Professor Martin Seligman of the University of Pennsylvania, it is possible to lift our biological set range of happiness, at least to some extent, if we work at it."
In addition to the scientific component of such research, I was pleased to find book reviews of recent literature...
The Happiness Project, by Gretchen Rubin
The Science of Happiness, by Stefan Klein
So I came across so many wonderful articles outlining the power of Positive Psychology (APA Division 17, Society of Counseling Psychology). Here is a snippit from Harvard Magazine I found especially interesting, which is what I will leave you with today...
"For much of its history, psychology has seemed obsessed with human failings and pathology. The very idea of psychotherapy, first formalized by Freud, rests on a view of human beings as troubled creatures in need of repair. Freud himself was profoundly pessimistic about human nature, which he felt was governed by deep, dark drives that we could only tenuously control. The behaviorists who followed developed a model of human life that seemed to many mechanistic if not robotic: humans were passive beings mercilessly shaped by the stimuli and the contingent rewards and punishments that surrounded them."
"Though not denying humanity’s flaws, the new tack of positive psychologists recommends focusing on people’s strengths and virtues as a point of departure. Rather than analyze the psychopathology underlying alcoholism, for example, positive psychologists might study the resilience of those who have managed a successful recovery—for example, through Alcoholics Anonymous. Instead of viewing religion as a delusion and a crutch, as did Freud, they might identify the mechanisms through which a spiritual practice like meditation enhances mental and physical health. Their lab experiments might seek to define not the conditions that induce depraved behavior, but those that foster generosity, courage, creativity, and laughter."
4.25.2010
I have a thing for...
Libraries. Ahh, wonderful, beautiful, sweet libraries. I love sitting in the library, getting uncontrollably wrapped up in a book or school work. I think the idea of being surrounded by literary geniuses really strikes a chord in my motivation. Plus, libraries smell soooo good. All those pages!
Anyhoo, I stumbled across this website last week...
20 of the World's Most Beautiful Libraries!
Anyhoo, I stumbled across this website last week...
20 of the World's Most Beautiful Libraries!
(Melk, Austria)
(Rijkmuseum, Amsterdam)
(Prague, Czech Republic)
(Baltimore, Maryland, USA)
Take a swing by the website, especially if you're in need of a little inspiration. :)
4.23.2010
1000 Awesome Things
I have seriously, seriously brainstormed the idea of making a book out of my Happy Things portfolio. Some of them, yes, are somewhat personal and may not strike a chord for others like they do for me. But, some of them are so special, so sincere, that I think many people would appreciate hearing, reading, or seeing them.
Well, well, this wonderful chap did something very similar, and I look up to him immensely because of it! Please check out 1000 Awesome Things by Neil Pasricha. It will make your heart happy! He made a book titled The Book of Awesome. I'm putting it on my wish-list.
Some of my favorites...
#523, When you learn a new word and start seeing it everywhere...
#531, The big night nap...
#536, When you're being chased by zombies and suddenly find a hidden stash of guns and ammo...
I've only perused through 20 or so, but with 1,000 available... I'll keep the good ones comin!
3.07.2010
Feeling French
For whatever reason, I've been feeling very French the past few weeks. My friend Sarah just spent a week over there, returned spouting out all of this lovely French banter! And I suppose it doesn't help that Alix showed me a couple of videos highlighting the work of JR, a French artist, or even the recent postings of a lovely newly-wedder who spent some time in Paris for her honeymoon... I've been thinking to myself, I really wouldn't mind a little black beret paired with skinny jeans and red lipstick! Anyhoo, maybe this book will help placate me until I can afford to make another trip across the Atlantic...
2.20.2010
Post Secret
Please visit postsecret.blogspot.com. It's a website that posts postcards sent in anonymously by people wanting to share their secrets. I bet it's really freeing to submit a huge secret for everybody to know. I heard about it from my dear friend Rachael. She got me a wonderful book full of postsecrets.
My favorite so far...
My favorite so far...
11.23.2009
Odd
Isn't this odd? An anonymous individual returned two over-due books to Camelback High Library this past week, along with a check for $1,000 to cover the over-due fees. Mother, isn't this your alma mater? Ha. Ha.
11.19.2009
Indeed, we are THOSE girls...
Tonight, we're seeing New Moon at Lincoln Center. It's downright MADNESS. We're surrounded by a lot of young people who are just as passionate about the movie as we are. However, they appear to manifest their passion in different ways. A lot of these folks are wearing fake fangs and have blood smeared on their arms... And necks... and mouths... We're dressed in fashionable winter attire. Boots. And leggings. And scarves. (Oh my!) Hmmm.
Anyhoo, we're loving it. Deets to come!
9.13.2009
My Library
(leaning tower of knowledgeeee!)
It's beyond scary at this point. I need to do something about my crazy book collection. Before I migrated East, I had to decide which books I wanted to bring with me. Naturally, it was quite difficult. (When I was young, I was a major pack-rat, but I quickly digressed from my obsessive nature and began throwing unnecessary items away.) The story behind my book collection, however, is slightly more interesting. 75% of my books relate to some form of the behavioral sciences - predominantly serial killers, clinical interviewing, psychological theory, true crime books, victimology, crime and courts, forensic assessment... I could go on... I'll stop. Essentially, most of my books serve as tools for research. I've decided the field of Psychology will remain my home for the next 50 years, so I ought to have some good reads for the long haul I'm on.
Several months ago, I was lucky enough to have a great professor donate some wonderful texts from her library to mine - suggesting some of the reads were absolutely essential if I planned to obtain my PhD in Clinical Psychology one day. (Oi.) Basically, my library is continually growing, and I need to accommodate.
To the point... My bookshelf is about to buckle. It sort of leans to one side, while over two dozen other books are cradled around the bottom. It's a great bookshelf, but I've decided it may be time to upgrade... (My mom would say: "It's time to get rid of some books, Lauren." Yeah, yeah, yeah...) I want a sassy alternative, so I'll peruse the internet for something sexy and homey. I'm open to ideas...
9.09.2009
Oh-So Intense
This semester, I have a pretty phenom lineup of classes. My professors really have it together, as their lectures are thorough and informative.
I'm currently enrolled in a "Victimology" course, a class focusing on the behavioral inquisitions related to victims within the forensic field. There is some pretty intense reading on the syllabus. Naturally, I appreciate this material in a way that only a student of my field could be... But I'm thinking everyone could appreciate the message here...
"After class I walked to the men's room and looked at myself in the mirror. There I was - not the man in a suit staring at himself in the mirror over the bar in Georgetown and trying to be no one. I was alive and I wanted to be alive."
- Secret Life, Michael Ryan
(Secret Life is the autobiography of Michael Ryan, sharing his experience as the victim of sexual abuse at the age of five, later developing an interest in becoming the perpetrator as an adult.)
8.13.2009
One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest
Indeed it is a classic. Considering my field of passion, I'm ashamed I have not read it. Furthermore, there's a movie as well - which I have not seen. So, it was my plan to finish the read this summer and rent the movie through Netflix. (It's always better to read first, watch later!)
This book is full of erudite gems. I must sincerely thank my (high school) senior AP English teacher for training my mind to catch the quips of literary geniuses like F. Scott Fitzgerald and Ralph Ellison. Mr. McClellan, I'm grateful for everything I learned in your class!
Now then, onto Ken Kesey. The metaphors just jump off the page and into the reader's lap! The language is rugged and chaotic, designed to reflect the babbling nature of patients on a psychiatric ward. Nonetheless, their words make sense. As a student of Psychology, I should question - is this a comment on the negated lunacy of the patients, or the skill of the author?
I could go on and on, but here's a snippet.
"While McMurphy laughs. Rocking farther and farther backward against the cabin top, spreading his laugh across the water - laughing at the girl, the guys, at George, at me sucking my bleeding thumb, at the captain back at the pier and the bicycle rider and the service-station guys and the five thousand houses and the Big Nurse and all of it. Because he knows you have to laugh at the things that hurt you just to keep yourself in balance, just to keep the world from running you plumb crazy."
6.27.2009
helloooo, book club!
i may have mentioned i've re-established my passion for reading... with that said, i've come across some definitively unique pieces of literature. so, i've decided to share in my new dedication - book club. (perhaps it would more appropriately be titled "quote club," because i plan to share interesting quotes from books i'm reading... but, "book club" is sort of a baller idea. and, i love being baller.)
from theories of developmental psychology by patricia miller...
"i started out... with considerable uneasiness. i felt that my so-called system was outdated and that it was a waste of time to rehash it and that it would be pretentious now to seek to make it fit any accepted set of prescriptions laid down by the philosophy of science. i have to confess, however, that as i have gone along i have become again more and more involved in it, though i still realize its many weak points. the system may well not standup to any final canons of scientific procedure. but i do not much care. i have liked to think about psychology in ways that have proved congenial to me. since all the sciences, and especially psychology, are still immersed in such tremendous realms of the uncertain and the unknown, the best that any individual scientist, especially any psychologist, can do seems to be to follow his own gleam and his own bent, however inadequate they may be. in fact i suppose that actually this is what we all do.
in the end, the only sure criterion is to have fun. and i have had fun."
- e.c. tolman (on his motivations for research, practicing psychology, and living life.)
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