Tuesday, December 21, 2010

Silver and Gold


 I haven't replied to emails...



I haven't visited other blogs...much...



I haven't wrapped a single present...



I haven't baked any cookies...



I haven't mopped my floors...



Or finished pulling together the guest room for the visit from my in-laws...



I haven't been able to keep my son Bugs from trying to find every present hidden in the house...



I haven't finished all the laundry that's been piling up...



I haven't sent out a single Christmas card...



I haven't put a few bins away...and on occasion I haven't been able to breath...but... 



I DID finally get my house all decorated for Christmas...both inside and out!!!

I went with a silver, gold and white theme in the dining room this year and I love it's simplicity and sparkliness (hmm, is that even a word...sparkliness?!).  

I used a cheap mirror from Target that was supposed to go in my son's dorm room and put it on my white tablecloth which has silver and gold threads running through it.  Added a crystal tree garland to hide the fact that it was in fact a cheap mirror.  I would have gotten a real tabletop mirror if Ikea wasn't so darn far from me, and if I actually planned anything out longer than 2 hours ahead of time...yup my mind works in mysterious ways...especially at midnight!

Then I added some beautiful crystal trees I bought years ago, and 2 I inherited from my parents, some creamy white tree candles I bought on clearance a few years ago from Pottery Barn, a crystal sleigh (that came with nuts in it from the drug store eons ago!), and a crystal Santa my parents gave us when we were first married.  I also added some crystal look alike reindeer I purchased last year which are actually acrylic, and I LOVE them! 

Sprinkle some instant mashed potato flakes for some white snow, throw a few crystal and sparkly ornaments on the chandelier...and voila...instant winter wonderland!

I hope to be able to photograph more of both the interior and exterior of my house, and I apologize for not getting back to each of you or commenting on all of your beautiful decor, but the clock is ticking my friends...and this year I'm like the rabbit from Alice in Wonderland...LATE, LATE, LATE!

Friday, December 17, 2010

Walking In A Winter Wonderland


Little Misty Belle has asked me to send each of you wet puppy kisses for all of your kind comments about her pictures from yesterday's post!

This morning it was cold and cloudy with that hushed quiet that comes with a coating of fresh snow.  Last night, and again this morning, when I took the dogs out there was almost complete silence except for the sound of crunching snow and swans flying overhead.  I love that kind of silence, not awkward, just contented, the kind that doesn't require you to fill it but allows you to become one with it.




The creek has a coating of ice on it, sadly it's not thick enough now, and probably never will be to skate away on...

Later this afternoon, the sun was shining and the snow and ice against the blue sky was beautiful but I was too lazy to go back out and take more pictures.  It's my day of rest after all, and rest I did!




Snow is such a wonderful substance for those of us who don't get a lot of it.  Water, which we take for granted, is magically transformed and makes even the most mundane things look beautiful.  I love how the snow looks like little waves along the fence gates...nautical inspired snow, what's not to love?!




I thought the fresh wreaths I bought from a local Mennonite family were beautiful before, but with just a kiss of snow they are even prettier.




Even the awkward driftwood pelican that I rescued while cleaning out my parent's house (because no one else wanted it) looks more handsome in the snow.  He's grown on me, and I'm very happy I gave him a new home.




Trees which have dropped their leaves and look naked against a cloudy or sunlit sky also look more elegant with a shawl of snow draped around their branches.




And what beachy Christmas would be complete without a little turquoise and white?  The big blue spruce in our front yard (which has enough lights on it to be seen from space I might add) fits the bill when a coating of white snow embraces its soft blue/green branches.




I think I'm waxing a bit poetic today.  Maybe it's because my work commitments have been met and now I can focus on the things that make this season special.  My dear friend Suzanne from Privet and Holly did a beautiful post today on finding the "it" which makes this, and every season, special.  As I read her post, I was reminded that sometimes we have to slow down, let the stress and expectations go a little, and focus on those things that bring us joy...namely the small things.  And to embrace and enjoy those things in order to find the true meaning of Christmas.  Thank you Suzanne!

For me, finding the "it" of this holiday season was a quiet walk through snow and a gift from my sister and also a friend.  I'll be sharing those with you in an upcoming post.  I'm happy I found my "it" and all it took was Walking In A Winter Wonderland!

These pups have obviously found their "it"!!!


Note:  Several people have asked how I processed the pictures of Misty yesterday.  I used a free action by Paint The Moon called Illuminate, and then I added a Flora Bella Texture Overlay called Pure Milk and played around with soft light, overlay, and color burn.

Today's photos are a mis-mash, but I also used Illuminate on most of them.  Some have overlays with reduced opacity and the rose has a overlay texture called White Linen from Flora Bella.

Enjoy your weekend everyone! 

Thursday, December 16, 2010

Snow Bunny


 We had our first snowfall today, and a certain snow bunny was in 7th heaven!




She frolicked, zoomed, raced, and zipped around in the powdery white stuff that amounted to about 3 inches.




She declared her love for the frozen confection by wanting to go out every 5 minutes!  The big dogs were in cahoots and kept egging her on.  I obliged in between finishing up my last story assignment.  I'm now a free woman for 3 whole weeks before I roll right in to my next set of stories!

Tomorrow will be a day of rest, and maybe some Christmas card writing.  And I'm betting a certain little furry Misty Belle snow bunny will be ready for more outdoor activities tomorrow as well!

I hope it's warm and cozy wherever you are reading this tonight!

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Confessions Of a Shop-a-holic


Phew, has it really been since last week that I posted?!  Thankfully my daughter stepped in and did her wonderful cocktail party post or I would have left you all hangin' for even more time!  She loved reading all of your sweet comments, so thank you all for your kind words!!




This week has been a complete blur with single digit temperatures, high winds, and lots of outdoor time with a new puppy.  Who thought it was a good idea to get a puppy during the coldest time of the year?!  Hmm, I think I'll take the 5th on that one!  I know our temperatures may seem tame to some of you who are used to living in the Arctic, but for us "southern" Marylanders...well we just aren't used to it.  I live south of much of the state of Virginia, so I'm a southerner at heart and appreciate heat and humidity, not wind and freezing temperatures!




In between my many trips outside this week, I was able to finish up another story and with just one more to go I've had some time to do a little shopping.  The title of my post is actually a little misleading.  You see I don't live to shop, and I have to confess that I haven't set foot inside a mall for probably 3 years...I detest indoor shopping malls!  I think I spent too much time in them when my children were little, hauling strollers, sippy cups, and diaper bags, so for me, the magic of mall shopping wore off a long time ago.  When asked by his pre-school teacher where he liked dine, for a book they made as a gift for mother's day, my son said that his favorite place to eat out was Nordstrom Cafe...so you can see we spent a fair amount of time shopping back in the day!
Plus, the closest mall is 45 minutes away, the "good" mall, the one with more than just a J.C. Penney is almost 2 hours away...and that's each way folks!  So over the years, I've become quite adept at that thing we call online shopping.  I can pick out pj's in my pj's and shop for tea while sipping a cup at my desk.  Plus, I don't have to spend money on gas, or a meal and it doesn't take me all day to buy what I need.  I love technology...but not as much as you you see...(ok that was from Napoleon Dynamite, did any of you get the reference?!...didn't think so!).




So I thought in this post I would share with you the only Christmas tree...can sticks be a tree?...that is gracing my house at the moment, and also share with you some of my favorite online retailers.   Now don't get me wrong, I love to shop at small local stores, and I'll tell you more about that in another post, but for now, here are some of my favorite online places to pick up some loot for the holidays!




For the bargain hunter in the crowd, you'll love these.  I'm a girl who loves a good bargain, and you'll find me picking through the clearance rack, even online!  Some of these sites require a free membership, some don't, but they offer designer finds at wonderful prices...my kind of shopping. Others on this list are simply sites that tell you which of your favorite retailers have things on sale...or where to find a coupon for something.  I always do a Google search for coupons when I'm buying something, I saved a boatload this year with coupons that weren't advertised on the retailer's website.


Rue La La

 BULX

Slickdeals


Overstock


Passwird


Dealighted

CSN Stores




I love giving things that are special or one of a kind, so this next group consists of shops where you'll find that perfect something for someone who has the soul of an artist...or those that don't want mass produced gifts.. I love those kind of people!  Some of the folks on this list are my sponsors, which means I love them even more!










K.Young Photography

Hartwood Roses

Cheryl McDermitt Jewelry 

Farmgirl Paints

There are so many wonderful Etsy stores out there that it would take me all night to list them all, so I apologize if I missed someone...I will probably wake up tonight in a cold sweat when I remember who I forgot!!




This next list consists of small online retailers that have those cool, unusual items that make me smile and drool!





Patina

French Bleu Vintage

Red Barn Mercantile

White Flower Farmhouse

Pale and Interesting


Paper Relics


Seaside Inspired


Violet Swan


Such Pretty Things

Williamsburg Marketplace


Madison at Main




Of course this list is just scratching the surface, but they are some of the places I like to frequent.  The clay tags you see in the photos above of my "branch" tree came from The Nest, and I love that they are homemade and one of a kind!  Of course I shop at the major online retailers and big box stores, but I truly do love the little things I find and the idea of supporting independent retailers and craftspeople!



And another thing I love to do is to support charitable organizations, not just at Christmas, but all throughout the year.  CNN had an article (HERE) that gives you lots of information on ways to help others, while helping yourself to some wonderful gifts!
I'm am 99.9% done with my shopping, which is a record for me...normally I have my decorations up early and my shopping done late...this year it's flip flopped!  Oh well, you can't win 'em all.  I hope each of you is avoiding the shopping frenzy and finding those perfect gifts for the ones you love!

Sunday, December 12, 2010

Shaken Not Stirred - Guest Post


This time of year it seems as though everyone's dance card is filled with holiday parties and commitments.  It's a chance to dress up and a time to share a little bit of the holiday cheer.  For many years we hosted a big Christmas party and it was a wonderful chance to slow down, enjoy the season, and to share all of our decorations with friends and family.

Since we moved into our new home and have been in almost constant renovation mode, we've only hosted one party, and that was last Christmas.  Our first party was scheduled for the weekend that we got hit with a huge snow storm, but the second date went off without a hitch, and we had a wonderful time.




About a month ago, our daughter sent me an email saying that she and her roommate were planning to host their own Christmas party this year.  The apple doesn't fall far from the tree as the saying goes, and she has definitely inherited the entertaining gene from my mother.  My mom loved having a beautifully decorated home this time of year, and a houseful of people to share it with.

This morning, I got a full report saying that my daughter and her roomie/friend had hosted a very successful cocktail party at their new apartment...complete with signature cocktails and a menu no less!  She's never been a drink to excess kind of child...thankfully, so I knew when she said that she would be hosting a cocktail party that it would be more like a Martha Stewart event than a 20 something style fraternity party.  Just to let the girls know we were thinking of them last night, Mr. Tide and I sent a small floral arrangement of fresh greens, white hydrangea and red roses because it's always nice to have fresh flowers when you are hosting a party. 

Today my daughter sent me pictures of the party, and I was so impressed by everything she and her roommate "B" had done to make this a memorable event for those invited.   She also asked me if I would like her to do a guest post to explain the evening and a little bit about how cocktails evolved...of course I said YES...and I hope you enjoy reading it!




Hi I'm Kat's daughter...affectionately known as Angelfish by my parents.  My roommate and I recently moved into a new place in Northern Virginia, and we decided it was high time we threw a cocktail/housewarming party for our friends in the area.  We bought some light hors d'oeuvres, libations, and set up our wonderful party playlist (I highly recommend this New Yorker inspired playlist).  We found cute cocktail napkins, set out some plates, and waited for our guests to arrive.  Though I'm not as legally minded as my roommate, who aspires to law school, cocktail parties still tend to put me in mind of the Eighteenth Amendment to the Constitution.

You, too?  No?  Don't know what the Eighteenth Amendment to the Constitution was?  Don't worry, you're not alone. This is probably due to the fact that the Eighteenth Amendment was repealed in December of 1933.  That's right, this amendment, along with the National Prohibition Act, or Volstead Act (as Andrew Volstead was the Senate Judiciary Committee chair who sponsored the legislation), started Prohibition in the United States.  The legislation for Prohibition was vetoed by Woodrow Wilson in October of 1919, but he was overridden by Congress and the law officially went into effect in January of 1920.




From 1920 until late 1933, the citizens of the United States were restricted from purchasing or consuming alcoholic beverages, and the government was to regulate the manufacture, production, use, and sale of high-proof spirits for 'other than beverage purposes'.  As you might imagine, from Prohibition stemmed some grave problems - among them, bootlegging, binge drinking, and organized crime.

Forced to distill and produce their own alcohol if they still wanted to drink, people turned to very creative ways to disguise the taste of the poor quality alcohol they were making (this is where terms like 'bathtub gin' come into play).  Prohibition era cocktails made great use of the mixer, an element of cocktails we consider commonplace today.  Mixers with strong flavors, such as orange juice and cream, became in vogue among those in the speakeasys who were trying to make their drinks palatable.




While my roommate and I were not serving bathtub gin, we are just out of college, and thus top-shelf liquors are not yet within a comfortable price range for us.  Anything with a good mixer is a perfect drink for us.  We found some great cocktail recipes in a book I have that was given to me by a good friend of mine for my twenty-first birthday, called Pocket Guide to Cocktails - The Essential Pocket Book of Cocktail Recipes.  It's a Parragon Publishing book and was first published in the UK; it has a great selection of classic cocktails, modern drinks, and a non-alcoholic section for any teetotalers in the crowd.

I made a bar menu with three 'specialty cocktails' that contained great seasonal spirits and colors that put people in mind of the holidays.  My friend J is an avid 'mixologist', and he helped me behind the bar all evening (he and his wife, D, even brought along their great Boston shaker bar set!).  All three drinks were a huge hit with our guests and I asked my mom if I could guest post today in order to share them with you!

Seeing Red

Ingredients:
1 measure red vodka (we used Skyy, not red vodka, and it turned out well)
1 measure peach schnapps
3 measures cranberry juice (if you're a fan of sweet drinks, regular cranberry juice is a dream.  If you're like me and prefer your drinks on the dry side, try organic cranberry juice with less sugar content)
crushed ice
soda water
frozen cranberries (fresh work just as well)

1. Shake the first three ingredients over ice until well frosted.
2. Strain into a tall chilled cocktail glass, top up with soda water, and float a few cranberries on the top for garnish.




Christmas Cocktail

Ingredients:
1 cube sugar
splash brandy
generous splash cranberry juice, chilled
champagne, chilled (we used cava which is generally less expensive and works well)
fresh raspberries, to garnish

1. Place a sugar cube in the base of a chilled champagne glass.
2. Add the brandy and allow to soak in, then splash on the cranberry juice.
3. At the last moment, top up with champagne and float one or two raspberries on the top.


Cider Punch

Ingredients:
17 fl oz/500ml dry sparkling cider (we used Woodchuck Amber hard cider, but you could use non-alcoholic sparkling cider here for a less strong mix)
5 fl oz/150ml cognac or brandy (we used brandy to overlap with our other drinks)
5 fl oz/150ml Cointreau
ice
apple slices, to garnish
10 fl oz/300ml soda water or dry ginger (I highly recommend using ginger ale)

1. Mix the first three ingredients together and chill in the refrigerator until required.
2. Pour into a large punch bowl with ice, apple slices, and the soda water or dry ginger.
3. Serve in small cups or glasses.

Note: We found that we had to add more ginger ale than it called for, to avoid the mix tasting too much of Cointreau.  To alleviate this problem without adding more ginger ale, simply reduce the amount of Cointreau (unless you adore the taste of Cointreau, in which case, have at it!).




Yesterday evening was quite a success, and now we're going to have to throw another party to share all of the lovely bottles of wine our guests brought.  I hope that you all are having a wonderful holiday season, and next time you settle down to a nice cocktail, turn on some Prohibition era jazz, dance the Charleston, and think about how lucky we are not to be drinking liquor made in someone's bathtub!

Friday, December 10, 2010

A Sneak Peek and A Reminder


I finally got a little mojo going last night and finished the tree in my living and dining room.  It's not a complicated tree, or even a tree in the traditional sense really, but after several days of staring at bare branches in a container I decided it was time to dress them up a bit. 

Once I'm done with both of these rooms I'll take some pictures to give you the full effect of it, I'm really loving the way it turned out.  Simple and natural with a touch of sparkle and beachy'ness, my favorite combination this time of year.




I also wanted to remind you of a few wonderful things going on this weekend.  Starting today, there are two wonderful barn/tag sales happening.  One is at Ekster Antiques outside of Leesburg, Virginia.  I featured Ekster's last sale in a post (HERE).  And several of the photos I took at that sale are also gracing the pages of this month's Romantic Country Magazine (Yipee!!), which should be in your mailbox or on newsstands sometime in the next few days.

If you live in or around DC or northern Virginia you won't want to miss this weekend's barn sale at Ekster!

The other sale which starts today is a tag sale going on at Chartreuse and Co. in Frederick, Maryland.  I've never been to Chartreuse and Co., but my dear friend Connie has and she tells me it's a "must" see.  If you click on the link above to their site you'll be treated to lots of photos of all of the wonderful things they currently have for sale!




It's also a Vintage Source weekend, the last one for 2010, and it's sure to be a good one!  The Vintage Source girls always end the year with a bang, and based on their "New Arrivals" page this sale looks like a great one!  During their sale weekend in December last year I picked up my lovely horse pull which holds my Christmas stockings!








I also want to take this opportunity to say goodbye to a wonderful woman, great friend, and one of the Vintage Source "mommas,"...Cathe Chiomento.  From the moment you meet Cathe you can feel her warmth and great infectious personality.  Cathe also has an amazing sense of style as you can see by the photos above of her home, which sold in just a week!  She and her husband are moving back to Pennsylvania to be closer to their children and grandchildren and St. Mary's County will be a little less bright once they leave at the end of this month.  Best wishes Cathe, and I can't wait to see all of the beautiful things you will do in your new home...I'll definitely be coming for a visit sometime soon, with camera in hand!

And last, but certainly not least, don't forget about the wonderful sale going on this Saturday at my friend Susan's home which I wrote about HERE!  Trust me when I say that you won't want to miss this sale either, and why not make a day of it and go to both Susan's sale AND The Vintage Source's sale...with lunch in between of course! 

If you live too far away to go to any of these sales never fear.  Over the next week I'll be sharing with you a few of my favorite Etsy stores and online retailers.

And for those of you who live in southern Maryland, I'll also be sharing a few of my favorite local stores so be sure to check back!

In the meantime...Happy Shopping everyone!

Thursday, December 9, 2010

Miscellaneous Musings

(photo courtesy of ehow) 


Several of you wondered what I was talking about when I mentioned having a toothpick tree growing up, so I thought I would show you what one looks like and even provide you with a link to a tutorial (HERE) in case you're interested in making one yourself!  

In the photo above they have hung the little ball ornaments from the toothpicks by hooks or maybe from the little loop where you normally attach the hooks?  The tree I had growing up had the ornaments attached in a different way.  My mother simply removed the gold end from each ornament leaving a hole and then slid the balls onto the end of a toothpick.  And we also didn't have a stand for our trees, they simply rested on the bottom set of toothpicks.  Either way you chose to do it, I think they are cool little creative trees, and I certainly loved having mine in my room each year.









Each year we have Tundra swans return to our creek, sometimes we have up to 12 pairs who spend their winters with us.  I love these beautiful, graceful creatures and look forward to their return each December, usually right around my birthday.  On Tuesday morning when I woke up, they were back, and Mr. Tide informed me that it took a lot of doing, but that he had made all of the arrangements to ensure they would be here for my special day.




You see, yesterday was my 47th birthday, so Mr. Tide was actually a day early on the swan delivery.  He waited until yesterday for the rest of my gifts, and boy what great gifts I received!   

I got the prettiest pink Cyclamen I think I've ever seen from my neighbor J!  My son gave me a card that made me cry, $60 worth of iTunes cards, and a package of cd's so that I can burn some new music to listen to in my car.  My daughter called me to wish me a happy birthday and to say she was sorry she couldn't be here, and she sent me the cutest e-card telling me that she is waiting to bring my present the next time she comes for a visit.  My in-laws sent me a check to put towards whatever I want,(it will go towards Mr. Tide's amazing gift).  And then Mr. Tide gave me another tear jerker card and some studio lighting equipment!!!

I've been wanting some studio lighting to be able to shoot the interiors of homes with really high ceilings, or at night.  And I've also been thinking about trying my hand at portrait work, so the lighting equipment he bought will help me to accomplish all of that!  As I sat and looked at it last night I thought to myself, wow I feel like a professional photographer...or at least I can play one on TV...ie. Blogland!



  
Studio lighting equipment isn't cheap, and I wish my family hadn't spent so much money on me so close to Christmastime, but Mr. Tide said I should look at it as an investment.  Did I mention that this man who I love dearly thinks I can do anything I want to do?!  

As if all of that weren't enough, or really too much, I also got fresh flowers and a homemade German Chocolate Cake...my favorite!!  Mr. Tide made the entire thing from scratch and it was delish!  Mr. Tide doesn't bake much...ok not really at all unless I need him to whip up some brownies when I'm behind the 8 ball, so it was a real treat to have such a yummy cake made by him.  My son even called him Betty Crocker a few times while he was in the kitchen baking!

You could say I was a bit spoiled...ok a lot spoiled on the occasion of my 47th birthday, and the day was perfectly wonderful!  We had Panera salads for lunch and then pizza for dinner...yum!










The day ended with phone calls from family and friends. LOTS of puppy love, and an early bedtime.  When I woke up this morning, I didn't feel any older, and certainly no wiser.  I actually don't lament each passing year and think of it as a badge of honor really, it's a gift to still be breathing in the air around me.  Like my father used to say "having a birthday is better than the alternative!"  

I am truly blessed in so many ways and unlike some December babies, I don't feel like I miss out on having a December birthday.  If anything, I feel like I get to appreciate everything that's near and dear to me twice as much this time of year because my birthday is so close to Christmas.  Just don't wrap my presents in Christmas wrap...that's all I ask! ;-)

It's been awhile since I've shared a song with you so I thought I would end today's post with a song I found on a wonderful blog, HERE, that I came across thanks to my newest follower.  She is an artist and a very creative young woman it seems who hails from the city where my mother was born, Charlottesville, Virginia!  Thanks Danielle and everyone who follows LTHS, and thanks for introducing me to this song which sums up my love for all those near and dear to my heart...it truly is Brighter Than Sunshine!

I hope you have a wonderful Thursday!!!