Chismosa ka ba?

**I've been importing in this blog all of my previous posts from my old blogs. I want to merge everything because I felt there is a sense of security in doing so. **This page right here was actually a blog post from my late blog, “ROAD TO KILL”. The blog itself was deleted but I never deleted my writings. I love all of the masterpieces I made from the past, beautiful, ugly, good or bad writings will always be kept! And I just decided today (February 9, 2013) to publish again all of these masterpieces in one site! Dates are preserved by the way.

Isang mahirap na bagay sa buhay? When people come just to judge you and claim a description about your position in life when truth declares an opposite of it. Paano kung yung TRUTH na yun ay katotohanan na mahirap na ipaliwanag kase naunahan na ng issues at chismis. Artista?

Hindi lang ito problema ng mga sikat. Paminsan-minsan din itong problema ng bawat tao sa Pilipinas.

Ako lang sa sarili ko, wala naman talaga akong pakialam. Pero to address this kind of situation lang (at dahil wala na din akong ibang maisip na isulat) e i-share ko na din ang mga pananaw ko tungkol dito.

Yung pinaka di ko makalimutang pangyayari sa buhay ko (kung chismis lang din naman ang pag-uusapan) eh nung bata pa ako. Isang gabi kase nag-away magulang ko, it was an issue about a 3rd party. Nung kinaumagahan, may mga kapwa bata akong nakita ko sa basketball court (katapat lang kase yun ng bahay namin). Di ko na rin maalala sinu-sino ba yung mga batang yun, pero there was this girl na sabi niya pa dun sa ibang bata, "sabihin na natin sa kanya.." and I was like anxious na "ano ba yun?". Tapos yun sabi niya may kabit daw tatay ko and she even told me the name. The nerve ko talaga when I heard that. I don't even know how to react pero all I was able to think about is, "Siya nga na nakatira sa other side nung basketball court had heard all about that quarrel, AKO PA KAYA NA NAKATIRA MISMO SA BAHAY NAMIN?"

But then lahat nung kapwa bata ko na yun (maybe including her) had forgotten that moment, except me.

Sabi kase nila kung i-cocompare sa ibang bansa ang root cause daw kase ng chismis ay CONCERN at concern na makatulong. Kaso ang nangyayari dito sa 'tin, we go over bound dun sa issue then in the end we judge the person with his/her act without that person knowing how to defend him/herself. Isa pa, sana nga concern lang pero malalaman mo na lang alam na alam na yung issue kahit sa kabilang baranggay without being publicly announced. Wala na nga ginawa kinalat pa. Ano yun virus?

Behind backs. Why can't we confront people if we are concern of their lives? Bakit nag-chichismisan kapag di kaharap ang pinag-chichismisan? Sabagay mas panget naman pag-usapan ang tao kung kaharap mo siya. Tama. Makakating labi.

Pero, medjo gawain ko (namen) din naman ang maging chismosa, ang kaibahan lang pinag-chichismisan namin yung mga mismong chismosa. Hahahahahaha.

My opinion is to keep out of family matters of other people. Bring your concern when you see people are getting hurt in dealing with the situation. Share issues to people who could help, do not share issues because it is intriguing as if your waiting for the next scene of a teleserye. Remember, kapag chismosa ka let's say na madame kang alam, pero behind reality, people are also talking about you being a xoxo gossip girl. Last thing, deal with your own issues.

In my case of life, I care what people could say pero i don't care how they judge me because I know better! You should, too. Don't let people's idea of a social person affect what you can do and what you can be! Minsan kase we  tend to be a social climber ourselves just by being the person we are not, this is to please people who could talk (or atleast people we thought has better idea than we have).

Isa pa, masasayang lang ang buhay kung hindi tayo nagpapakatotoo sa sarili natin kase alam natin na madameng huhusga. Would it be nice if we are able to be the person that we wanted to be, a person too unique to be judged?

Ikaw sa tingin mo? Ano tingin mo sa opinion ko? <3