28 April 2005

Teenage Girls in Hell
by Lorraine Berry

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The House voted to make pregnant teenagers' lives a living hell today.

And hell's ambassador, our beloved president, welcomed them:
In a statement, President Bush praised the House for passing the measure. "The parents of pregnant minors can provide counsel, guidance, and support to their children and should be involved in these decisions," he said. "I urge the Senate to pass this important legislation and help continue to build a culture of life in America."

As the parent of a teenager, do I hope that if my daughter were to become pregnant, she would come to me and seek my guidance? Of course. But I'm also betting that my willingness to discuss sexuality and birth control with her means that, when the time comes for her to make those decisions, she'll have been using contraceptives in the first place.

As feminists, I realize this is not an easy topic for us. A scared 15-year old couple, facing pregnancy, needs some guidance. And we all hope against hope that we will have built enough of a trusting relationship with our kids that they will involve us in any decisions that have to be made.

But believing that every family is like that is pure fairy-dust snorted fantasy. Let's face it: We've got a huge movement across this country to teach teenagers that sex is evil, nasty, and something that shouldn't even be thought of until you're married. And we also know that abstinence programs don't work. On average, teens exposed to 'abstinence-only' programs put off sex for one year, and when they do engage in it, they're not using contraceptives.

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Posted at 09:08 AM by Lorraine Berry in Abortion, Activism, Body, Christian Fundamentalism, Civil Rights, Culture War, Culture of Life, Extremists, Feminism, Gender, Health, Kids, Parenting, Politics, Roe vs. Wade, Sexual Politics | Comments (4) | TrackBack (0) | CultKiterati

27 April 2005

Race and Multicultural Politics
by Jeff Langstraat

This relationship has been on my mind lately.  It's a topic I always end my classes on Race and Ethnicity with, and a week ago I was asked by a couple of organizations to talk about issues that finally center on this relationship.  I, the white guy from a nearly all-white town in rural Minnesota, and the only white male in the room, was talking to an organization of black men and the University's multicultural society about race and multicultural politics.  It was a fascinating experience.  I've been thinking about some things we discussed, and some of what we've been doing in class, and wanted to toss around a few ideas, some of which might make folks a little uncomfortable.  As I say to my students when they're not sure what the hell I'm doing, "Come along for the ride."

One of multiculturalism's biggest flaws is that it substitutes culture for race.  It maintains a form of racial essentialism and transfers that into a cultural particularity.  It links culture to body.  More specifically, it links particular cultures to particular bodies.

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Posted at 06:22 PM by Jeff Langstraat in Body, Communities, Critical Theory, Culture, Ethics, Ethnicity, Identity Politics, Politics, Race | Comments (3) | TrackBack (0) | CultKiterati

Hi Everybody!
by Jeff Langstraat

Hi Dr. Jeff!

Well, it’s not Dr. Jeff yet. Still another year until I get that title. (Please, God (or my committee), let it only be one more year.) Since I’m going to be guest blogging here for a while, testing out the relationship and all that, I thought it might be nice to let y’all know who I am, or at least a bit about me, and maybe a little of what to expect.

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26 April 2005

Jesus and "Real" Men
by Lorraine Berry

The theocrats' hatred of the body is a particular fascination of mine. It's a topic that haunts me, and, as things get increasingly worse in the United States in terms of the attacks on privacy, and as I feel the water getting hotter and the frogs still not jumping out of the pot, I search for answers, for words, for a way to understand them, extend compassion to them, and change their minds. Yes. I want to be the queen of the universe and make these people see the light. I really want to release them from their fears, because I think they are a people driven by fear. Fear is the basis of addiction. And fundies act like addicts in ways that I've articulated before.

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Posted at 02:59 PM by Lorraine Berry in Body, Christian Fundamentalism, Conservatism, Culture War, Extremists, Feminism, Metaphor, Religion, Sexual Politics | Comments (9) | TrackBack (0) | CultKiterati

Mothers Who Like to Fuck : Yep. I'm one of them
by Liza Sabater

My friend, Rachel Kramer Bussel's new column is up village voice > people >Mothers Who Like to Fuck : Lusty moms share their sex secrets—the good, the bad, and the horny . For those who don't know, I get to hang out with the coolest editor Penthouse has ever had who happens to be also a total cupcake slut.

Mmmm, cupcakes... Oh, I digress.

She asked me a few months back to answer some questions for this column she was writing about sex after birth. A topic, dear to my heart, I fired away a lengthy email about the subject. There are great quotes from the likes of Dr. Victoria Zdrok (sexysexpert.com), Elise Miller and Susie Bright, but here are the quotes that matter :


On the real meaning of sexual workout:

My friend Liza Sabater (culturekitchen.com) has had similar bodily woes. "The sensation in my nipples was literally gone for about five years," she confides, but with diligence and dedication she's gained a new erotic outlook. "I had to learn how to have sex again, to literally work my vagina in different ways to get those muscles back in shape. It was an opportunity to become more aware of what brings me sexual pleasure."


On how multiple orgasms are more nurture than nature:

For moms struggling with their new roles, there is hope. Sabater's early dry spell has given way to a sexual free-for-all. "Now I'm hornier than ever," says the mother of two. "I've worked hard to get my body back into sexual health, and it's paid off. My orgasms are 10 times more intense than before, and I've found the key to opening my body to multiple orgasms. All it really takes is practice. Once I was done nursing, one day I just woke up and fucked the brains out of my husband."

Is that all I told Rachel about my post-birthing sexual healing? Of course not silly! Read the rest in Thereismoresville :

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Posted at 03:55 AM by Liza Sabater in Domesticity, Entertainment, Health, Humor, Motherhood, Newspapers, Sex | Comments (2) | TrackBack (0) | CultKiterati

25 April 2005

Blog Sheroes Meetup : The Hungover Edition
by Liza Sabater

Nichelle did the honorable deed of blogging Nichelle Newsletter | Ladies First. I attempted to record it but weird things kept happening to my Audacity. I'll let you know if anything good came out of it --jeez, I'm good with gadgets and software, but podcasting really hates me.

We had a good crowd, in spite of it being Seder. None of our Blogging Beauties made it to the meetup (shame on you!) but we had an awesome crowd with people coming as far away as the land where men curl, women are caught mapping, and the polar bear roams free.

The list of lovely ladies includes :
Lorraine Berry of Stregoneria, culturekitchen and
The Great Maha from The Mahablog
Elayne Riggs of Pen-Elayne on the Web
Erin O'Brien of fshk.net and elsewhere
Carla Murphy of Cohobblopot
Lindsay Beyerstein of Majikthise
Bitch Ph.D.
Carolyn Tate http://www.subvic.blogspot.com
Chris Lombardi http://scrivovivo.typepad.com
Elizabeth of Half Changed World
Elissa of Contrarian Quarterly


Non-bloggers were also in da houz! Among others, Asha Taylor (web designer)and my BFF, Barbara Prevatt (urban planner and hard-core femiist, yeargh!)

Also, go read about Nichelle's first blogmothering!

I helped Elexis (now known as Rock-Chicka) start a blogger account.  Send her a comment and check out her band, audiofiction.

Rock on sisters!

Pictures right at Theresmoreville

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Posted at 10:27 PM by Liza Sabater in Blog Sheroes, Blogeratti, Blogs, Events, Feminism, New York City, Social Networks | Comments (3) | TrackBack (1) | CultKiterati

The Children's Crusade
by Lorraine Berry

Save the Children UK reports today that of the approximately 300,000 child soldiers currently involved in combat, 120,000 or 40 percent of these, are girls, some as young as 8. Like their male peers, girls are kidnapped away from their families and forcibly conscripted. Like their male peers, they are trained in arms use, but unlike their male peers, the majority of these girls and young women are raped by older soldiers.

The report is available for full download at
Girls in War

From the summary:
The findings highlight a worrying global trend and are not unique to one country or continent:

* In Uganda, there are an estimated 6,500 girl soldiers captured in the rebel Lord Resistance Army (33% of the total army)
* In the Democratic Republic of Congo, there are thought to be 12,000 girls still associated with armed forces
* In Tsunami torn Sri Lanka, 21,500 girls are considered to be associated with armed conflict (43% of all the children fighting).

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Posted at 09:23 PM by Lorraine Berry in Africa, Gender, Indecency, Kids, Violence, War | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0) | CultKiterati

23 April 2005

How far will you go to blog?
by Liza Sabater

Elaine of Kalillily asked for my contribution on the following :

I've been invited to serve on a panel on blogging at a youth leadership conference that's going to be held here in Albany at the Legislative Office Building. I suspect that a legislator or a legislative staff member also will be part of the panel. I posted about it here because I'm hoping to get some comments from bloggers like you all about what kinds of self-imposed ethics or guidelines you have for yourselves about what you blog. Also, why or why not (do you think) blogging should have government regulations imposed.

She has more brain-teasing questions at : Kalilily Time: some things get getter; some things get worse.

To answer this question, I did what I normally do, which is to totally evade it by doing some quick research. So I looked up to a word that has been on my mind recently :

free·dom
n.

1. The condition of being free of restraints.
2. Liberty of the person from slavery, detention, or oppression.
3.
1. Political independence.
2. Exemption from the arbitrary exercise of authority in the performance of a specific action; civil liberty: freedom of assembly.
4. Exemption from an unpleasant or onerous condition: freedom from want.
5. The capacity to exercise choice; free will: We have the freedom to do as we please all afternoon.
6. Ease or facility of movement: loose sports clothing, giving the wearer freedom.
7. Frankness or boldness; lack of modesty or reserve: the new freedom in movies and novels.
8.
1. The right to unrestricted use; full access: was given the freedom of their research facilities.
2. The right of enjoying all of the privileges of membership or citizenship: the freedom of the city.
9. A right or the power to engage in certain actions without control or interference: “the seductive freedoms and excesses of the picaresque form” (John W. Aldridge).

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Posted at 11:35 PM by Liza Sabater in Blogs, Censorship, Civil Rights, Creative Class, Creativity, Ethics, Free Speech, Government, Internet, Law, Media, Politics, Progressive Libertarianism, Publishing | Comments (1) | TrackBack (0) | CultKiterati

Is Masculinity Threatened?
by Lorraine Berry

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Thomas Frank has a piece in this week's NYRB that will serve as an addendum to the paperback edition of What's the Matter with Kansas?. The article is more than worth reading (obviously) but I would like to offer another perspective. It goes without saying that I think he missed something: the crisis of masculinity that I think permeates American politics.


Frank offers his brilliant analysis of the populist politics of the past thirty-five years: the Republicans' mastery of convincing working class people to vote against their economic interests in order to stick it to elitist liberals who seek to destroy the working class's values. By  manipulating religion, the right--the party of elitist business concerns--makes an unholy alliance with fundamentalist Christianity.

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Posted at 02:23 PM by Lorraine Berry in 2006 Congressional Elections, Bio-Power, Body, Books, Christian Fundamentalism, Class, Conservatism, Culture, Culture War, Democracy, Democrats, Domesticity, Economy, Feminism, Gender, Identity Politics, Liberalism, Politics, Psychology, Voting | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0) | CultKiterati

22 April 2005

Come to Mama
by Lorraine Berry

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It's back.

If James Dobson wants to get his knickers in a twist over sponges, this would be the one. The Today Sponge. The contraceptive sponge. The go-to-the-grocery-store-in-the-middle-of-the-night-so-I-can-get-me-some sponge. Happy sponges. Glorious sponges. Sponge. What a beautiful word.


Posted at 03:24 PM by Lorraine Berry in Body, Culture, Ephemera, Feminism, Health, Life, Motherhood, Pharmaceutics, Pop Culture, Reproductive Rights, Science, Sex, Technology, Toys | Comments (2) | TrackBack (0) | CultKiterati

Help the Children of Iraq
by Lorraine Berry

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My friend, Maura Stephens, journeyed to Iraq shortly before our invasion. Her writing focused attention on the people of Iraq, not our enemies, but the people struggling to survive in a country strangled by sanctions and facing the prospect of an invasion. Her husband, George Sapio, is a photojournalist, and his photographs of the people of Iraq were devastating, poignant. I've included a link to his gallery above. But if you click on the links at the end of this story, you can see more of them.


Maura is departing today for the Middle East. I asked her if there was anything I could do to help her, and she sent me the following letter. I'm putting it up here, asking you to consider her requests. If you can't make a donation as an individual, perhaps you could talk to your church group, civic association, hell, even your bookclub, to see if perhaps there aren't things that you could do to help.

Aspirin helps at this point. These people have been robbed of so much.

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Posted at 12:07 PM by Lorraine Berry in Accountability, Activism, Communities, Democracy, Documentary, Film, Freedom of Information, Grassroots, Iraq, Islam, Journalism, Media, Middle East, War | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0) | CultKiterati

21 April 2005

David Brooks, Meet Medusa
by Lorraine Berry

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Medusa would like to kick your ass today, Mr. Brooks. I don't often wish for supergirl powers, but today, I'd like to be able to use my superpowers to turn you into a woman. A poor woman. A poor woman living in a county where there are no abortion providers. Oh, and I'd make you about 15. With a daddy who can't keep his hands to himself. I'd make you frightened, and helpless, and wishing that someone would help you figure out what to do.

If I was Medusa, Mr. Brooks, I'd turn your man parts to stone, make 'em inoperable. That way, you wouldn't be able to get any woman pregnant. Of course, that wouldn't stop you from spouting off about how it's all the fault of uppity women that our political system is a fucking personal destruction free-for-all. So, I guess as Medusa, I'd have to turn your head to stone, too. Of course, I wouldn't have to do anything about your heart. Turning it to stone would be a redundancy.

How do you sleep at night, Mr. Brooks? Do they pay you well, those good ol' boys that you defended this morning? The party of mass destruction, of the mean daddies who want their own fucking way all the time, the ones who have been taking a sledgehammer to the Constitution in an effort to keep themselves in power, what exactly is it that you owe them?

Do you have any idea what it was like for women before legalized abortion? Have you walked through a graveyard, counted the headstones that bear the names of too many women who died young, of the infants who were often buried with them? Are you really that blind?

Who will you blame next? Lyndon Johnson said when he signed the Civil Rights Act of 1964 that the Democrats would lose the south for a generation. Well, they've lost it for more than that. And it was still the right thing to do. The politics of personal destruction is not the fault of Rosa Parks or Dr. King, and it damn well is not the fault of Harry Blackmun and the Supreme Court of 1973.

There is passion, and then there is stone-cold cynicism. Mr. Brooks today I have felt its icy blast. I guess I have no need to be Medusa today. You sir, are an unfeeling rock.

Photo credit: Mark Beazley, mbeaz@aol.com


Posted at 07:49 PM by Lorraine Berry in Abortion, Bio-Power, Body, Christian Fundamentalism, Civil Rights, Culture War, Culture of Life, Democracy, Empire, Extremists, Fascism, Identity Politics, Journalism, Law, Liberalism, Politics, Poverty, Prejudice, Reproductive Rights, Republicans, Roe vs. Wade, Sex, Sexual Politics, Supreme Court | Comments (4) | TrackBack (0) | CultKiterati

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