On the morning of February 21, 2017 my Grandpa Allred passed away in his sleep. This was right before the trip my mom had planned to come visit us. Because of this she was able to stay with us for a few extra days and then drive down to California. A few days later we joined her for the funeral. We took the boys out of school on March 10th just a little early and made it to California in time for the viewing that evening.
The Crane Family
The Fisher siblings (minus Rachelle... Vance felt the need to stand in for her)
The Allred Sisters (Nancy, Linda, Sharon Kaye, and Heidi)
Mom's cousins and uncle (Steven Goff, Uncle Harold, Michael Speth)
The Fisher's (minus Rachelle)
Vance and Lydia had a great time with their shadows while the adults visited.
The next morning was the funeral. It was so good to be with all the family beforehand.
(Craig and Connie's family: Adam, Samantha, Will, Sarah, Ryan, and Trevor in the back)
(Linda's girls: Keena, Chanelle, Kayla, Ciera)
(Linda and Jeff in the front. Back: Mary, Devin, Kyle, Travis, Maryann, and Gordon)
(Amanda, Heidi, Rainer, Amy--Heidi's friend, Tanner)
Everyone got a chance to say their last goodbyes.
The funeral was perfect--except for the fact that Lydia did
not want to be in there. Rich ended up taking her out and missing the whole thing. The talks and memories shared were wonderful. I am so glad that my boys were there to hear the stories and I loved when they would look over at me when they heard a story that they recognized!
After the funeral we headed to the graveside. I haven't been there in a really long time. There was an honor guard military presentation to honor the time that Grandpa served in the Army.
Then Uncle Craig dedicated the grave.
By this time we had some really hungry and tired kids. So it was a good thing we had lunch! It was a nice time to visit with everyone and look at the displays around the cultural hall.
This is the first time that so many of the cousins have been all together! So many have been born since I was out of the house in college or married. I am the oldest grandchild and I got to hold the youngest grandchild, Emma (who is about 8 months younger than Lydia).
My mom and all her siblings.
After changing (the boys were done being in church clothes!) we headed to Grandpa's house. Travis was out front playing with all the little cousins.
Henry thought it was fantastic that he got thrown in the trashcan.
We got to sort through things and pick a keepsake. I still have a few bigger items that I need to get next time we are down there.
Mom and Jacob had fun wearing this old lace bonnet.
And Rainer tried on Grandma's brown felt hat.
In the evening, Craig invited
everyone over to his house to eat. Craig and Connie were so great to host so many people. The little cousins had a fun time wrestling the bigger cousins (Mason and Jacob). William was even getting beat up on for a little while but he decided it wasn't for him.
Greatest Craig (as the boys call him) tried teaching the little boys that it is easier to ask forgiveness than permission... when they wanted to hop in the pool in just their underwear! Some of them
did get permission (at my insistence) and were ultra crazy to hop in that cold pool!
And because "the guys" were getting in the pool, Lydia really needed to as well. Craig was so nice to help her get her feet wet and follow her around the pool. (She
really wanted to go off the diving board!)
Later Craig handed out everyone's dry undies.
Lydia is obsessed with keys of all kinds. She just loved that Connie's house was decorated with keys everywhere! Connie even gave her a few to keep!
Everyone sat around and visited for a long while.
Greatest Craig sat and talked with Henry for a while about his times getting lost as a little boy (because of our times losing Henry). He even gave Henry a whistle for the next time he went on an adventure so that we could find him. Henry felt really special.
After sacrament meeting on Sunday we headed back home.
We watched Ephraim's Rescue in the van since it is has one of our Allred relatives in the story. It seemed appropriate.
Just outside of Vegas we stopped at the Seven Magic Mountains. It was a fun little break to stretch our legs.
It was a long, exhausting, fun, family-filled weekend. I'm so glad that we live close enough that we could all head down for a short but memorable trip. And I'm especially grateful for the knowledge that Grandma and Grandpa are together again after a long 21 years and that I can see them again as well.