Consider this sequence of events:
2000: Alice marries Bob.
2010: Bob dies.
2020: Alice marries Carl.
2030: Alice and Carl invent time machine and travel to 2005 where they meet Bob.
Then, in 2005, Alice is married to Bob and Alice is married to Carl. But she is not a bigamist.
Hence, marriage is not defined by external times like 2005, but by internal times, like “the 55th year of Alice’s life”. To be a bigamist, one needs to be married to two different people at the same internal time. A marriage taken on at one internal time continues forward in the internal future.
And while we’re at it, the twin paradox shows that it is possible for two people to be married to each other and for one to have been married 10 years and the other to have been married 30 years. Again, it’s the internal time that matters for us.