Perhaps the drum beating against Catholics...
...is designed to take the attention off of other groups?
This is a well-sourced essay on the connection between homosexuality and pedophilia from former Assemblyman Steven Baldwin.
Read the whole thing:
It's politically incorrect to mention this, but if you look at the data on child molestation among teachers and priests, the rate of same sex molestation is 70% for priests and around 25% for teachers.
What gives?
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Showing posts with label Holding Paper - Pedophilia. Show all posts
Monday, September 30, 2013
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Monday, September 17, 2012
He was in the business of being likeable.
The New Yorker has an interesting article on how pedophiles can play their audience.
Of course, that's the way it is with anyone with an addiction or obsession that distorts their personality. The rest of us are just making our way through life, balancing our many interests and concerns. An addict obsesses on only one thing and can get very good at getting that thing. And since he knows the game he's playing, and the rest of us don't even know that there is a game, we can be made fools of, time and time again.
Here's an excerpt from the New Yorker article:
The successful pedophile does not select his targets arbitrarily. He culls them from a larger pool, testing and probing until he finds the most vulnerable. Clay, for example, first put himself in a place with easy access to children—an elementary school. Then he worked his way through his class. He began by simply asking boys if they wanted to stay after school. “Those who could not do so without parental permission were screened out,” van Dam writes. Children with vigilant parents are too risky. Those who remained were then caressed on the back, first over the shirt and then, if there was no objection from the child, under the shirt. “The child’s response was evaluated by waiting to see what was reported to the parents,” she goes on. “Parents inquiring about this behavior were told by Mr. Clay that he had simply been checking their child for signs of chicken pox. Those children were not targeted further.” The rest were “selected for more contact,” gradually moving below the belt and then to the genitals. The child molester’s key strategy is one of escalation, desensitizing the target with an ever-expanding touch. In interviews and autobiographies, pedophiles describe their escalation techniques like fly fishermen comparing lures. Consider the child molester van Dam calls Cook:Here's another excerpt:Some of the little tricks that always work with younger boys are things like always sitting in a sofa, or a chair with big, soft arms if possible. I would sit with my legs well out and my feet flat on the floor. My arms would always be in an “open” position. The younger kids have not developed a “personal space” yet, and when talking with me, will move in very close. If they are showing me something, particularly on paper, it is easy to hold the object in such a way that the child will move in between my legs or even perch on my knee very early on. If the boy sat on my lap, or very close in, leaning against me, I would put my arm around him loosely. As this became a part of our relationship, I would advance to two arms around him, and hold him closer and tighter. . . . Goodbyes would progress from waves, to brief hugs, to kisses on the cheek, to kisses on the mouth in very short order.Sandusky started with wrestling, to make physical touch seem normal. In the shower, the boy initially turned on a showerhead a few feet from Sandusky. Sandusky told him to use the shower next to him. This was a test. The boy complied. Then came the bear hug. The boy’s back was touching Sandusky’s chest and his feet touched Sandusky’s thigh. Sandusky wanted to see how the boy would react. Was this too much too soon? The boy felt “weird” and “uncomfortable.” Sandusky retreated. The following week, Sandusky showed up at the boy’s home, circling back to test the waters once again. How did the boy feel? Had he told his mother? Was he a promising lead, or too risky? As it turned out, the mother had alerted the University Police Department, and a detective, Ronald Schreffler, was hiding in the house.
One of the most remarkable and disturbing descriptions of the grooming process comes from a twenty-two-page autobiography (published as a chapter in a book about pedophilia) by a convicted pedophile named Donald Silva. After graduating from medical school, Silva met a family with a nine-year-old named Eric. He first sexually molested Eric on a ski trip that the two of them took together. But that came only a year after he befriended the family, patiently insinuating himself into the good graces of Eric’s parents. At one point, Eric’s mother ordered an end to the “friendship,” because she thought Silva’s friends had been smoking pot in her son’s presence. But Silva had so won over her husband that, he writes, “this beautiful man found it in his heart to forgive me after I assured him that such a thing would not happen again.” Silva describes an unforgettable night that he and Eric spent together after they were “reunited”:And, after the fact, everyone undoubtedly said, "how could I have been so stupid." And the answer is that they are only human and an admirable part of being human is giving other people the benefit of the doubt and not being judgmental. The article is really about putting the reader into the position of the community around Jerry Sandusky, who were hood-winked by him. On the surface, he seemed like an admirable guy, with foster kids and a charity, but below the surface he was corrupt, which raises the perhaps unanswerable question, what was he thinking? The answer is that he was thinking - reasoning - about the means to his end. His end was something that he chose out of "love," a disordered, inordinate love that ran counter to reason.I had recently broken up with Cathy [his girlfriend] when Evelyn, my future wife, arrived for a visit. In that month, Evelyn met Eric’s family, and she and his mother became good friends. Evelyn stayed with me at my parents’ house, and we enjoyed an active sex life. Eric slept over one night, and the three of us shared a bed for a while. He was going to pretend to be asleep while Evelyn and I made love, but Evelyn declined with him there and went to sleep elsewhere.To recap: A man uses his new girlfriend to befriend the family of the ten-year-old boy he is molesting. He orchestrates a threesome in a bed in his parents’ house. He asks the girl to have sex with him with the ten-year-old lying beside them. She says no. She leaves him alone with his victim—and then he persuades her to marry him.
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Thursday, August 23, 2012
A preview of things to come - the next Civil Rights crusade will be for equal rights for "minor attracted people."
Pedophiles want same rights as homosexuals.
Pedophiles are protected under "hate crime" laws?
Is that true? The FBI defines hate crime as follows:
The problem is the ambiguity in the term "sexual orientation." The definition of sexual orientation does not currently specifically exclude
pedophilia, but it doesn't include it either, so it is a term that will be defined judicially by judges relying on professional input from psychiatrists. Although there is a lot of hysterical commentary on both sides, right now we don't know, and can't say, that pedophilia will or will not be included within the ambit of federal hate crime law. For what it's worth, right now it appears that the FBI is not collecting data on hate crimes against pedophilia (or, alternatively, pedophiles are not coming forward and admitting that they pedophiles who were attacked because of their pedophilia.)
Clearly, any assault for any reason - short of the defense of self or others - ought to be criminalized, but to single out revulsion toward pedophiles or pedophilia as deserving special punishment is intellectually bankrupt - people should feel a revulsion towards pedophilia because they ought to feel protective of children.
Via Mark Shea.
Pedophiles want same rights as homosexuals.
Using the same tactics used by “gay” rights activists, pedophiles have begun to seek similar status arguing their desire for children is a sexual orientation no different than heterosexual or homosexuals.
Critics of the homosexual lifestyle have long claimed that once it became acceptable to identify homosexuality as simply an “alternative lifestyle” or sexual orientation, logically nothing would be off limits. “Gay” advocates have taken offense at such a position insisting this would never happen. However, psychiatrists are now beginning to advocate redefining pedophilia in the same way homosexuality was redefined several years ago.
In 1973 the American Psychiatric Association declassified homosexuality from its list of mental disorders. A group of psychiatrists with B4U-Act recently held a symposium proposing a new definition of pedophilia in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Health Disorders of the APA.
B4U-Act calls pedophiles “minor-attracted people.” The organization’s website states its purpose is to, “help mental health professionals learn more about attraction to minors and to consider the effects of stereotyping, stigma and fear.”
In 1998 The APA issued a report claiming “that the ‘negative potential’ of adult sex with children was ‘overstated’ and that ‘the vast majority of both men and women reported no negative sexual effects from childhood sexual abuse experiences.”
Pedophilia has already been granted protected status by the Federal Government. The Matthew Shephard and James Byrd, Jr. Hate Crimes Prevention Act lists “sexual orientation” as a protected class; however, it does not define the term.
Republicans attempted to add an amendment specifying that “pedophilia is not covered as an orientation;” however, the amendment was defeated by Democrats. Rep. Alcee Hastings (D-Fl) stated that all alternative sexual lifestyles should be protected under the law. “This bill addresses our resolve to end violence based on prejudice and to guarantee that all Americans, regardless of race, color, religion, national origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity, or disability or all of these ‘philias’ and fetishes and ‘isms’ that were put forward need not live in fear because of who they are. I urge my colleagues to vote in favor of this rule.”
The White House praised the bill saying, “At root, this isn’t just about our laws; this is about who we are as a people. This is about whether we value one another – whether we embrace our differences rather than allowing them to become a source of animus.”
Pedophiles are protected under "hate crime" laws?
Is that true? The FBI defines hate crime as follows:
A hate crime is a traditional offense like murder, arson, or vandalism with an added element of bias. For the purposes of collecting statistics, Congress has defined a hate crime as a "criminal offense against a person or property motivated in whole or in part by an offender's bias against a race, religion, disability, ethnic origin or sexual orientation."
The problem is the ambiguity in the term "sexual orientation." The definition of sexual orientation does not currently specifically exclude
pedophilia, but it doesn't include it either, so it is a term that will be defined judicially by judges relying on professional input from psychiatrists. Although there is a lot of hysterical commentary on both sides, right now we don't know, and can't say, that pedophilia will or will not be included within the ambit of federal hate crime law. For what it's worth, right now it appears that the FBI is not collecting data on hate crimes against pedophilia (or, alternatively, pedophiles are not coming forward and admitting that they pedophiles who were attacked because of their pedophilia.)
Clearly, any assault for any reason - short of the defense of self or others - ought to be criminalized, but to single out revulsion toward pedophiles or pedophilia as deserving special punishment is intellectually bankrupt - people should feel a revulsion towards pedophilia because they ought to feel protective of children.
Via Mark Shea.
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