Tresa Edmunds in the Guardian explains why Mormons do not worship Mary:
In much of the Christian world, 8 September is recognised as the birthday of Mary, the mother of Jesus Christ. Which, as a Mormon, was news to me. Compared with many other Christian sects, Latter Day Saints don't appear to pay much attention to Mary. We revere her as the mother of Christ, celebrate her sacrifices, and honour her as we do Eve or Sarah or other heroines of the scriptures, but we don't worship her.The highlighted phrases merit a hearty "Huh?"
The Book of Mormonteaches of Mary's sacred calling as the mother of Christ, referring to her as "a virgin, most beautiful and fair above all other virgins" (1 Nephi 11:15) and "a precious and chosen vessel". (Alma 7:10) Around Christmas time, congregations around the world host nativity festivals as we celebrate the birth of Christ and her role in it. She is special to us, but we do not believe in much of the Mary worship of other Christian faiths, including the immaculate conception of Mary, her perpetual virginity, or the assumption.
The first Article of Faith reads: "We believe in God, the Eternal Father, and in His Son, Jesus Christ, and in the Holy Ghost." Unlike many other Christian denominations, Mormons do not believe in the Trinity, but that God, Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit are three distinct personages with their own roles in eternity. This difference in belief ripples out into many other areas of doctrine, but it has important ramifications for Mary. Much of her worship stems from being the mother of God, an intercessor in prayer to her son on our behalf. But Mormons believe that we pray to the heavenly father, with Christ being our only intercessor. Without using her in that role, Mary no longer has grounds for worship, although retaining our reverence and gratitude.
Obviously orthodox Christians do not worship Mary, albeit the overwhelming majority of Christians throughout history have viewed Mary, and the saints, as powerful intercessors.
What may be going on here is revealed in the underlined sentence - Mormons are not supposed to pray to anyone but God the Father, who alone is the proper object of supplicatory prayer and alone is capable of answering prayers. In point of fact, Mormons do not worship Jesus, according to the Bruce McConkie, a member of the Quorum of the 12 Apostles:
1. We worship the Father and him only and no one else.The issue of prayer is wrapped into the issue of worship by McConkie as follows:
We do not worship the Son, and we do not worship the Holy Ghost. I know perfectly well what the scriptures say about worshipping Christ and Jehovah, but they are speaking in an entirely different sense--the sense of standing in awe and being reverentially grateful to him who has redeemed us. Worship in the true and saving sense is reserved for God the first, the Creator.
Our revelations say that the Father "is infinite and eternal," that he created "man, male and female,"
And gave unto them commandments that they should love and serve him, the only living and true God, and that he should be the only being whom they should worship. [D&C 20:17–19]
Jesus said:
True worshippers shall [note that this is mandatory] worship the Father in spirit and in truth; for the Father seeketh such to worship him.
For unto such hath God promised his Spirit. And they who worship him, must worship in spirit and in truth. [JST John 4:25–26]
There is no other way, no other approved system of worship.
Another peril is that those so involved often begin to pray directly to Christ because of some special friendship they feel has been developed. In this connection a current and unwise book, which advocates gaining a special relationship with Jesus, contains this sentence:This is an interesting working out of the Arianism at the heart of Mormonism. For orthodox Christianity, Christ is of one substance with the Father and the Holy Spirity and always has been. For Arians, including Mormons, Christ is of a lesser rank and substance than the Father, and is a creature himself. As such, the logic of not praying to Christ is abundantly clear.
Because the Savior is our mediator, our prayers go through Christ to the Father, and the Father answers our prayers through his Son.
This is plain sectarian nonsense. Our prayers are addressed to the Father, and to him only. They do not go through Christ, or the Blessed Virgin, or St. Genevieve or along the beads of a rosary. We are entitled to "come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need" (Hebrews 4:16).
But look at the result - while Mormons falsely claim that "other Christians" have elevated Mary to the position of God, in truth, Mormons have lowered Christ to the position of Mary. Christ is not truly God; he is simply the most elevated creature. This is explicit in McConkie's sermon:
Our relationship with the Son is one of brother or sister in the premortal life and one of being led to the Father by him while in this mortal sphere. He is the Lord Jehovah who championed our cause before the foundations of the earth were laid. He is the God of Israel, the promised Messiah, and the Redeemer of the world.I'm not sure that all Mormons really understand the implications of this theology, or whether they understand that they do not pray to Christ. The circumlocution of "praying to" and "praying through" provides sufficient ambiguity to take either position.
On the other hand, I think that there are Mormons who know exactly what their doctrines entail, and who fight the full disclosure of their doctrines out of fear that potential converts would be deterred if they understood that they were not permitted to have a "personal relationship with Jesus." That at least was my experience in this thread from Theology for Dummies. Likewise, McConkie acknowledges how difficult this doctrine is for the presumed target audience:
Now I know that some may be offended at the counsel that they should not strive for a special and personal relationship with Christ. It will seem to them as though I am speaking out against mother love, or Americanism, or the little red schoolhouse. But I am not. There is a fine line here over which true worshipers will not step.From my interactions with a particular Mormon troll, I have become progressively more puzzled by the (apparent) Mormon insistence on - repulsion concerning - the false notion that Non-Mormons worship Mary. It strikes me as odd that any Mormon would accuse Non-Mormons of adding Mary to the "godhead" when Mormon doctrine explicitly includes a fourth person, an un-named female goddess - to the Mormon "godhead" in the mysterious form of the "Heavenly Mother." Although this figure is seldom discussed, she lurks in the background, and is, in fact, found in Tresa Edmund's essay:
Personally, Mary has significance to me far beyond other women in our scriptures. She is the closest avatar we have to our heavenly mother, and proof of the love and care Christ had towards the women of his day. In stark contrast to how religions have treated women throughout time, her life shows that God knows women are powerful enough to bring forth his most mighty miracles.Presumably, Mormons do not "worship" the Heavenly Mother for the same reason that they don't worship Jesus, but worship is the proper response to divinity, and insofar as the Heavenly Mother is divine in Mormon theology, the question remains, why not?